Post # 1
Bees, this is mostly a vent, but if you have any tidbits of advice to share, please do!
So I am trained in one field that I LOVE, but have not been able to find a job. 🙁 So I have been working at another job, that quite frankly, I hate. It’s not full-time, I can’t stand the people I work for/with, and I’m so burnt out.
So…I have a possible job offer in the field I LOVE…but it’s going to be about 10 hours away from where we are now. FI would not be able to come, as it would be a remote placement for me, and he would not have work. I want this job, and the money would totally help, but…I don’t want to be away from him!
Any advice? Anyone gone through this?? ARGH!
Post # 3
We’ll be doing the same thing. I’m moving back home with my parents so I can finish school faster and save more money, but he’ll be finding a job anywhere he can, and likely it won’t be in the same state as me 🙁 So at least ours is more temporary because once I’m done with school I can move with him and figure out a job as we go. But I totally understand!
So I don’t have advice, but I’m right here with ya 🙁 Come September we’ll be long distance 🙁
Post # 4
If you are getting married, it is definitely best not to be long-distance.. but thenagain that job sounds like it would be great for you. I think you just need to sit down and sort out what is more important to you – your career, or being close to him. Sounds easier than it is, I am sure! Good luck! Personally, I would not even consider a job that far away if my FI wouldn’t be able to move with me, but your relationship may be completely different!