(Closed) LONG: Vent – Boyfriend's Brother

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
367 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

If you can avoid him, I suggest you do so. He said he wanted to hurt you? Thats crazy talk. Even with an apology I wouldn’t t want to be near him. Sorry to hear about this 🙁

Post # 4
Member
470 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I’m sorry you have to deal with this. I’m very glad that your FI and his family are supporting you though. Good luck 

Post # 5
Member
511 posts
Busy bee

Honestly, I can see why he would be upset with you. It sounds like you gave off a terrible first impression, and then tried to hook his girlfriend up with someone else. At least, that’s what it would seem like to him. At this point I would just avoid conflict and avoid situations that create more family tension, if you could. Stepping back in just a few situations could lower their awkwardness with each other that you’re feeling bad about, and could maybe make you feel better for it. So I would just insist on not going, despite what your SO and his parents say. After all, the wedding is about Louis!

Post # 6
Member
731 posts
Busy bee

So you pawned your ex off on the girlfriend, who you thought was broken up with Louis? i don’t see what’s so bad about that. Why would he lie to your SO about breaking up with her? And how did you “cause” *him* to cheat?

Obviously if the parents are on your side of things then it’s Louis that’s causing all the drama. 

Post # 7
Member
6821 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

This whole situation sounds really complicated. I probably don’t even follow it right! But it sounds like you and Louis have a history of not getting along, and it’s gotten out of control. I think you and Louis BOTH need to apologize to each other, and be sincere about it. And you or your fi have no business imposing and conditions on attending Louis’ wedding. The mere fact that he invitec you should be enough to show that he’s willing to play nice for one day. Go to the wedding, make your apology before that, and try not to get involved in Lluis’s relationship with his brother, parents or fiancée. It sounds like everyone is way too far into everyone else’s business. 

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