- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
My so and i have fallen into a grey area as of this weekend, sometimes not talking about it leaves you more hopeful than when you go looking for answers. i’ll elaborate.
About 3months ago after our summer holiday together, he was full of talk about us, wedding, kids and all. i let him initiate and just enjoyed the progress while expressing my thoughts on everything he was saying. all the while i was bubbling up with excitement thinking how an engagement couldn’t be far off, by Xmas at the most. however after a few big talks things died down and i let it be but decided that enough time had passed for me to bring up a timeline conversation so i did.
What should have been a general conversation about where we are turned into him saying he was too tired2 talk about it and me getting angry and offended that he could b2tired2 discuss our future.
The bicker itsself has blown over but im not bringing it up again til he does, instead i plan2start focusing on me more over the coming weeks.Anyone want2join me?