(Closed) Lost and confused – advice?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I would talk to your management company 1st. Tell them the situation, that your new neighbors are loud. Maybe they’ll work with you… if they were willing to change you out of your other place with them, maybe they have something else with fewer neighbors opening up soon?

Are they extremely loud, like with parties? Or loud enough to wake others up? Cause you can file police reports if they’re loud after 10pm.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Or another thing you could try is if they’re not extremely loud, its just the walls are thin, you could play music at night when you’re sleeping. Point the stereo speakers towards their direction because it’ll help muffle out their noise. Loud enough to drown their noise out, but quiet enough so that you can sleep to it.

Post # 5
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Helper bee

Wow, that’s awful!  I’m wondering if you and your fiance maybe aren’t looking at the right things when you’re in the market for a new apartment – it’s a little bit of a stretch to imagine that it would be just pure dumb bad luck to keep ending up in unsuitable apartments.  I can understand how if budget is the primary factor it could be tempting to just take whatever you can find, but you should be pickier. I don’t think I would have stayed with the same management company after having so much hassle with them in the first place.

That being said, if the only thing keeping you in New York is your wedding, and you could change the wedding location without too much trouble, I would just pack up and move out West.  It sounds like you’re itching to leave anyways and if you’d be happier, why not do it now?  A wedding in Arizona has to be cheaper than one in NYC!

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