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So Bees I have been an emotional wreck pretty much the past 2 days because I have lost my wedding rings Yes Both Bands and Engagement ring Because they were all soldered together.

I know 100% I had it on when I was driving home from work Tuesday night b/c it was bothering me bc my fingers were swelling and it was pinching so I pulled it off and put it on my middle finger down to the knuckle It fit tight I have done this many many times before even wore it like that almost all day at work one day while doing hair and it never once fell off or wouldnt even slide.

Wednesday morning I am driving to work and think man I forgot to put my ring on. Then I think I DON'T REMEMBER SEEING IT! (I always take it off at night when I wash my face and put it in this little dish on my bathroom windowsill) Then I think I DON'T REMEMBER TAKING IT OFF! So I immediately call my husband to tell him to please look for it and the search begins.

He said he looked the house over everywhere he could think of. I sat down and wrote out a paper retracing my steps of every single thing I did. 3 of us have torn the house apart for 2 days looking for my rings NOTHING!

The first thing I did was went to pick my daughter up at my mother in laws I walked from my car to the front door (only on their driveway & their little porch). Then I went home walked from my driveway to my house... got my dog and took her out. I only stood in the same area to wait for her to go potty which was off to the side of my driveway. Then i went back in. From that point I didn't shower or take a bath or do laundry or wash dishes (and it wouldnt fit down my bathroom sink drain bc of the stopper...so I know it couldn't be down the drain anywhere)But I have searched everywhere I could think of I went into 4 rooms of our house that night so you wouldn't think it would be so hard.

I looked all the obvious places couch, bed , drawers or baskets,hamper, Trash, recycle, and even the more strange places going over every single thing I did like I looked in the potato chip bag, the ice bucket, the fridge, the dog food bag, etc....NOTHING

I questions all the family about seeing it and no one has... even offered a reward to ANYONE who finds it! SO We had 6 different people come down and search our yard & driveway as well as my In Laws...my husband even got his metal detector and walked the entire area(even ran it over the dog just to make sure! . I have had 4 different people check my car. I even called around to all the businesses I work near (we are in the same shopping center) worried that it might have been in my car and i knocked it out when i went to work Wednesday morning to see if anyone turned it in (Target had an entire drawer full of lost rings! I couldn't believe it) NOTHING!

I have went over and over it again and again and while I know for certain I had it on in my car... that's it I don't remember otherwise .. I cant remember a time for sure that I had it on after that But I know I didn't have it on when I washed my face or I would have done my normal routine and put it where i do every single night. I just don't understand where it can be! IT HAS TO BE HERE SOMEWHERE!

Hubby was pretty upset about it (with reason) but he is more sorry I am so upset about it, bc to him it was just money to me it was emotional.

We do have it insured through our homeowners insurance but.. even if we could get one exactly like it... it still will not be MY WEDDING RINGS. I don't know in my mind its irreplaceable. I am so mad at myself for being so irresponsible. You would think I would have not just stuck it just anywhere.... And you would think I would notice it fall off.. I mean it is pretty good sized and has some weight to it.

He is going to call tomorrow to see about what we need to do or if there is a waiting time or a time limit to report it. But we were looking online and reading alot of companies wont cover it if it was a "mysterious disappearance" well WTF does that mean? I mean if it wasn't a mystery wouldn't I know were it was? I mean if I knew exactly where I lost it.. I would know exactly where to look for it!

So has anyone else lost their ring? Did You find it? Did You claim it under your insurance? How did that work? Did insurance cover it?

Also, did you check the trap of your sink? Is there any way they could have fallen down a drain?

LittleSu...He said the metal detector would have picked it up even in her belly when he "wanded" over her but no I dont think she would have eaten it... she has never eaten anything before. It is such panic I have just been a wreck and it has even had me sick to my stomach over it.
My daughter is 7 so she wouldnt have ate it...and I have questioned her many many times to the point where she is pretty mad at me that I didn't believe her and thought she might have been lieing.

SoonTobeeMrsD.... I really dont think there is any change it could have fallen down the drain... expecially not the bathrooms bc of the stoppers with all 3 rings attached and the size of the center I dont even think it would fit down the kitchen drain but I really didnt even use the sink I put a cup in there and rain a little water in it to rinse it out but thats it.

I lost my engagement ring in a similar fashion. I was so torn up about it. My fiance felt the same as your husband. I have not to this day, found my ring... but he did buy me a new one. I still miss the old one very much. Needless to say he waited an awfully long time (6 months) before giving me the new ring... he said he didn't want me to lose again it so he waited closer to the wedding "OUCH" burn lol

I agree with @Jazziberry, check your garbages, it could have slipped off onto a plate or bowl with leftover food in it? I am praying for you hun.....

I washed my hands before cooking one time and as I dried my hands, I used the paper towels to take my rings off. Well, my engagement ring was in a paper towel and I threw it away while cleaning up. I didn't know that at the time - I thought it was on the counter with my other rings! I went through the garbage and didn't find it. Then I unfolded every paper towel, etc, in the trash and there it was. My Fiance was actually going to take the trash out the night before but NOTHING was going to leave that house until I found my ring.

Try the trash, try the sheets, try all around the bed/nightstand, try all around the bathroom floors. It could be anywhere.

UPDATE !! SOOOOO HAPPY I FOUND MY RING!! THANKS EVERYONE FOR YOUR CONCERN AND PRAYERS!   Definately think it was an answered prayer.. I been praying about it myself asking to be pointed in the right direction!.

Found it this morning by chance was not even looking for it ... but what is so wierd is me and my hubby both had looked there before and I know I didnt wear that jacket in the other night but I cleaned my car out lastnight looking again.....the things i carried in were still in my kitchen this morning and when i was taking the dog out I thought.... im gonna slip a jacket on then i thought Nah its not cold outside... then I thought well yeah it might be chilly... so put this hoodie on ... just so happened that i put my hands in my pockets and there it was !