(Closed) Should I apologize?

posted 8 years ago in Family
  • poll: Should I apologize to his sister?
    Yes, apologize for losing your temper. : (0 votes)
    No, stand you ground. : (10 votes)
    91 %
    other- please explain : (1 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
    177 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    Normally, I’d say suck it up an apologize. But she is so out of line, I would just distance yourself as much as possible, and try not to engage her at all. Cordial when you have to be, but let your FH handle her. This is what I have to do with my Future In-Laws and while it’s not ideal that they aren’t welcoming you with open arms, it’s healthier for your relationship with your FH, and your own emotional health to distance yourself. If anything, I’d suggest talking to her and saying that you both have acted in ways unbecoming of sisters-in-law, and say you want to move forward. Maybe that will get her to act differently, and if not, at least you tried like a grownup.

    Post # 4
    7421 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    She was completely out of line and sounds mentally off. you can’t logically reason with people like that. Be cordial moving forward and move on. She will bring it up again, i’m sure but don’t make it a practice to bite her bait

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