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    Ms. Figales    October 15, 2010   Los Angeles

    We're bringing in our own pianist and singer, who are family members.  Our priest just told us as long as our songs are religious, we can use anything.  That's so broad and I'm so indecisive!  I've found a few resources, but not super crazy about the traditional or contemporary songs I've found. Any other suggestions?

    Also, and my biggest confusion right now, how many songs do we need?  I've seen between 7-14.  such a big range!  which are optional?  it seems to vary by website.

    http://www.thebestsongs.net/catholic_wedding.html

    http://www.squidoo.com/catholic-wedding-hymns

    http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1456990/catholic_wedding_hymns.html?cat=33

    http://www.mauramusic.com/catholic_wedding_music.asp

    http://www.myweddingmusic.com/Catholic-Wedding-Songs.asp

    http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/whats-your-nuptial-mass-music

     
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    KLP2010    October 30, 2010  

    Here's our Mass list:

    1. Bridesmaids Entrance: Be Thou My Vision
    2. Bridal Entrance: Cry of the Beloved; Alicia Hernon
    3. Glory to God; John Foley http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RYUmmwQsvPo
    4. Responsorial Psalm: Set me as a seal; Matt Maher (don't have permission on this, if we don't get it, it will be somewhere else.) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ta83lISU5rE
    5. Alleluia: Undecided as of now
    6. After Exchange of Consent before vows (this isn't necessary) The Litany of the Saints by Matt Maher http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NG75daBWPdQ
    7. Presentation of Gifts: The Servant Song http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OzyFSNUB6nk&feature=related
    8. Holy Holy: Sanctuce http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sRLoY6QGqcY
    9. Memorial Acclamation and Great Amen from the Mass of Hope, music by Jim Cowan(This is what my sheet music says it is, but I can't find a sample of it online. Anything online is not what I have.)
    10. Agnus Dei; Matt Maher http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7V35jHEf8kg
    11. Communion: I Shall be Healed; Bob Rice    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h84VIltm8-M
    12. Flowers to Mary After Communion: As I kneel before you; Maria Parkinson http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lqa3NJit2LE&feature=related
    13.  Recessional: Joyful, Joyful, We adore Thee

     

     

     
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    fontgoddess    August 8, 2009   British Columbia, Canada

    We ended up having 7 actual hymns for ours. Then there are the parts of the Mass which are usually (but not always) sung – i.e. Psalm, Gospel Acclamation, Holy Holy, Memorial Acclamation, Great Amen, Lamb of God – various arrangements for these can be found in the parish's hymnbooks. You could ask your priest for a little more guidance in terms of the order of the Mass – some insist that the parts of the Mass be sung, others don't care.

    These are the hymns we had:

    Seating of the Mothers: Ave Maria (Gounod) (this one definitely optional)

    Processional: Praise to the Lord, the Almighty (some people have a 2nd hymn just for the bride, but I didn't)

    Offertory/Preparation of the Gifts: Lord of All Power

    Communion:  For the Beauty of the Earth
                        Love Divine, All Loves Excelling
    (you might need only one, depending on how many are taking communion)

    Signing of the Register: Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring (optional, but might be boring without music)

    Recessional: Joyful, Joyful, We Adore Thee

    Hope this helps!

     
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    LisaD78    September 27, 2012  

    There should be a music/liturgy director at your church who will guide you.  I'm a cantor and we give brides a list of 4-5 pieces to chose from for each piece of the mass.  It's difficult to stay liturgically correct.  I wouldn't go hog wild picking out music until you talk to that person.  I've seen many a bride be told by the priest that they can use "anything religious" only to find out that their choices don't fit with a nuptual liturgy.  Just don't want to see you get your heart set on something and then get shot down!

     
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    Ms. Figales    October 15, 2010   Los Angeles

    The church doesn't have a music director that we were offered.  We could either pay for the choir or bring in our own music.  One cousin is singing and the other is playing piano and guitar.  I called our priest and he said he's not strict.  I think I've played it pretty safe.  We're meeting with him next week to go over our list just to be sure.

    Prelude
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TzJ5PtIKaFA

    Wedding Party Processional
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mnVVSrLnsNs

    Bridal Processional
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ABBzejbplVQ

    Presentation of the Gifts
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ea5q-Az_fqk

    Communion
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m_t0zL8iRl8

    Flowers to Mary
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=24UA_cwI0ac

    Recessional
    either http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4HuEKDcX51o
    or if priest lets us http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X1GHFpUBOtw&feature=related

     
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    KLP2010    October 30, 2010  

    @Ms. Figales: There will probably be an issue with the Beatles and Allman brothers... he may not be strict but that is probably out of the realm of what he was expecting... 

     
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    pretzel    July 10, 2010   Seattle-ish, WA

    I agree with KLP. However, you could use the Beatles and Allman brother songs as Prelude songs. We had an Eagles song in our Prelude. Before the Mass starts you can use secular music as long as it is appropriate and respectful.  The Church most likely has a music director- they would provide guidence in your choices, not perform at your wedding. I would suggest calling and inquiring who the music director is.

     
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    totheislnds    February 12, 2011   NC

    i have not even begun to think about music for my catholic wedding. i do know that i want to walk down to Ave Maria.

     
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    Ms. Figales    October 15, 2010   Los Angeles

    priest already said Turn, Turn, Turn was ok because it's before the mass.  If Beatles isn't ok, we have a backup.

     
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    Ms. Figales    October 15, 2010   Los Angeles

    our priest is so cool!  he said we could have All You Need Is Love as our recessional.  He also said we could do non-religious sons for the processionals, but we'll probably keep them as is.

     
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    starry    December 18, 2010  

    Not that this is useful for anyone, but these are the people I am trying to get for my wedding...they do masses and are so beautiful and spiritual..their music is highly moving....it's moved me to tears before at a mass. I hope they can squeeze us into their schedule :(

    www.myspace.com/fivewoundsyouthchoir05

    They usually play the 2nd MP3 on there at mass.

     
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    JenuineMulder    October 16, 2010   Ontario

    Your priest is definitely cool! Ours would never ever allow any of that!

    Our processional: Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring

    Our opening hymn: God who Blesses New Beginnings

    Our Psalm: Taste and See that the Lord is Good

    Celtic Alleluia 

    Our Signing hymn: Where there is Love

    Our recessional: Horn Pipe

    *Note, it's not a full mass, that's why there is no communion hymns.

     

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