Maid of Honor Advice Needed…

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
112 posts
Blushing bee

Can one of the other bridesmaids reach out to her? Can anyone else reach out to her? Do you think she’s been MIA because she’s been busy or because she doesn’t want to talk to you? 

Post # 4
286 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@BDCS:  Other than getting her dress what are you having your MOH do? My MOH is far away also so are 2 of my 3 bridesmaids. I knew that they wouldn’t be able to help. I am a big diy/crafter and would have loved/love more help but I knew that it wasn’t possible. Another Bee on here said no one is going to love your wedding as much as you do. At this point I don’t think there is a whole lot you can do but make sure you are still keepin up with these friends tabs that every conversation you have is not about your wedding. Sometimes that can be a turn off for bridal party members. Good luck. 

Post # 5
8677 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

It depends on what you’re requiring your maid of honor to do. What are you asking of her?

Post # 6
42117 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@BDCS:  What is your absolute deadline for ordering their dresses?

I would contact her once more and tell her that I was worried about her as I had not had any response to my previous efforts. I would not make any mention of the wedding or her dress at this time. Let her know that you care about her and are available if she needs you.

If you don’t get a response to that, I would text her that she needs to order her dress by  ___ , (whatever the absolute deadline is) or you will have to assume she is no longer interested in being in the bridal party. She is welcome to attend as a guest.

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