(Closed) Maid of Honor bailed! As did her sister. Wedding in two weeks.

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Jeez! Sorry to hear this… I think its quite low for them to text your mother and not talk to you directly, as well as just run out on you instead of trying to fix the problem. The fact that this is also a family affair makes it harder… Because its so close to your wedding, i would try to just focus on the positives about the event and not let them ruin such a wonderful event in your life. I agree that its sad it ended this way, but at least you have a few weeks to get your thoughts and plans together. Keep your head up hun!

Post # 4
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137 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

They are horrible people! Family or no family I would not have anything to do with them again unless they apologized and made it up to me in some big way. I’m sooooo sorry you had to go through this but at least you still have 3 persons who want to stand up with you. Make one of them MOH and forget about those extremely selfish people.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Hmm, it seems like some family members just don’t get it! I’m sorry you’re disappointed, if they come to you with any complaints explain to them that this is a stressful time for you and that how they acted was the opposite of supporting you. I asked one of my cousins to be a BM, she was sooo excited, then left me a text message saying her bf decided it wasn’t a good idea! She never showed up to the engagement party or bridal shower and is not coming to the wedding. Honestly, it’s their loss.. We’ve tried to include these people in our weddings and they’ve chosen not to be sooo F em! Lol

Post # 6
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328 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Truly cowardly to text your mother instead of you. And now she can’t be bothered to show up on your wedding day! Well, at least now you know how she really feels about you.  Sorry, some people are just awful.  Frown

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Hmmm….I know u are upset but maybe u should be grateful that they didn’t ruin your snug day! It sounds like they didn’t really want to be involved with nor go to your wedding anyway. I would be very hurt but in the end it may be a good thing. Why aren’t they coming?! Is there anything else to this story? I just can’t imagine doing that to someone….

and to their comment about never going to a wedding that didn’t have kids…that’s odd bc I’ve NEVER been to a wedding with a bunch of kids aside from the flower girl/ringbearers and maybe a few others. They seem nuts 

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Italiano's Humble

@megaleg:  LOL, it could be WAAAY worse! trust me!

But, like one PP said, at least they won’t be able to ruin your day! I would howerever, be prepared, for her to possibly show up with said home-wreckee(the male LOL), and say she didn’t know for sure about the man, and that she “mis-marked” the RSVP.

 

It’s possible. Probably not, but it’s a possibility 🙂

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