Maid of honor only cares about herself

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Am I crazy?
    im overreacting : (4 votes)
    50 %
    she's being completely rude and inconsiderate : (4 votes)
    50 %
  • Post # 2
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014 - Smithfield Center

    I’m not answering the poll because I think there’s a little bit of both going on. I think on the one hand, you’re overreacting a tad – I think you might possibly be jealous that your MOH has been weaving you out of her life and getting closer to the other friends, and that’s why you’re making her sit away from them at the reception – as punishment. That’s just the way I read your post. However, as a MOH – hell even as a guest – you’re obligated to follow the seating chart. You don’t  have to sit in your seat the whole time, but where you’re on the seating chart is where you sit, it’s just the way it is. So I think that she is being rude by refusing to sit where you’re putting her, but I also think you’re just putting there so she isn’t with them, as you say, ‘the whole friggen time anyway.’ I could understand if it’s because you want her just with the bridesmaids, but you’re putting other people at that table as well which makes the ‘bridesmaids only’ point mute. I hope you don’t take offense to this, I’m just saying what I got from your post. I think you need to breathe and try to keep calm about the situation, and then maybe have a heart-to-heart with your MOH to see what’s really going on between you two that is making her act so stubbornly. 

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