(Closed) Major drama has made me a little sad…

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2114 posts
Buzzing bee

@ZebraPrintMe:  aw that is so sad for his wife!!

Yup looks like he is just a huuuge jerk. Probably being so loving to his wife to compensate for the cheating!

I guess if it walks like a duck and talks like a duck…its a douche bag duck :p

Post # 4
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643 posts
Busy bee

@ZebraPrintMe:  Hearing cheating stories makes me sad, too. When it involves people I have frequent contact with, it’s not only sad but awkward. I know cheating happens and the divorce rate isn’t exactly low, but it’s depressing that so many people step out on their partners and break their vows. That’s one form of betrayal I sure couldn’t move past. 

Post # 6
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354 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

You do have the right to judge him. For a guy who is clearly a jerk and who has absolutely no problem judging everyone else around him and feeling no qualms about doing and saying what he wants, really, he doesn’t deserve much sympathy. He’s basically a scumbag. And for all the times he’s been an asshole to everyone else at your work, just imagine how he is to his WIFE. All those times he was nice to her are probably imbalanced by all the asshole things he ever did that you and your colleagues never saw. 

He’s a jerk, and a dick, through and through, and that’s why he cheated on his wife and that’s why he’s an ass at work. Judge him all you like.

Post # 7
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2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Sure it’s “none of your business”, but when I see a a couple that I think are so happy, and then hear something like this you almost….question things? 

Post # 8
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492 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@ZebraPrintMe:  

wow, he had one saving grace and he blew that! You just have to pity him, he’s angry and permanently disgruntled and he’s on the road to being a very lonely old man

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@ZebraPrintMe:  I know 2 marriages that are currently breaking up right now in part because of cheating. The cheating came on because both the cheaters (in each marriage) fell out of love with their spouse. I know it’s WB and everyone is excited to get married, but sadly it does happen. My only advice (being an older previously married Bee) is to COMMUNICATE. If you ever find yourself unhappy in your marriage, tell your spouse. Then, if they are willing, you can work on it, even going to counseling if need be. In both the cases I know, it was never communicated until it was too late.

In your co-worker’s case, maybe he’s always been an a$$hole!

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