Post # 1
Signed on anoymously, or hoping so this time.
While i was planning my wedding a number of years ago, I relied on the strength and great support of Wedding Bee. It was just a blessing that when my niece was getting married I recommended it to her.
Her Stepmom, BIL’s 2nd wife, was upset that I was friendly with BIL’s 1st wife and the mother of my niece. When she heard about WB she scoured its millions of posts and finally tracked down which one was me. I of course let a thing or two slip and she was able to locate me.
She read EVERY single post I made. She cut and pasted them and sent them to people I mentioned. Most of this stuff was typical bride things. I was hurt that lazy adult children couldn’t return RSVP’s, worried about unsavoury behaviours, upset that MIL wore white to my wedding. She has turned everyone against me with these words I spoke being a frazzled bride more than 5 years ago.
She has unnecessarily hurt many, and I’ve blacklisted from the family. Just wanted to caution people out there. Hopefully they evil person is one in a million, but you never know.
Post # 3
@MistyBee: OMG, that’s horrible!!! I’m so sorry for you 🙁 Hope it will soon be forgotten and that your family has some understanding for your bridezilla moments.
Also, with regards to your MIL: If any reaction, she should apologize to you for having worn white!
Post # 4
@MistyBee: are you joking? What a stalker! That’s crazy and sad that someone would go to that effort.
Post # 5
@MistyBee: if ever I saw a jobless person. How old is this woman. Sorry about being blacklisted. When planning a wedding ppl would upset you and I’m sure most of what you wrote was without malice. I hope she doesn’t make ur MIL gate you. That would be awful. Hopefully your DH is by you. Oh dear, women we really are our own enemies. Hugs
Post # 6
@MistyBee: That’s insane!!! *internet hug*…..I hope your family realizes how much of a crazy person she is.. <3 <3 🙁
Post # 7
@MistyBee: That’s horrible! I’m so sorry.
Post # 8
DH is behind me completely. He told them I was entitled to have stressfil moments and he didnt care what I might have said. He told them I am a good woman and that this is mean spirited.
The woman who did it is retired, you would think she would be more mature and understanding.
But mostly she has triggered all sorts of nasty. The other SIL is fuming with me and playing high school games, Blocked me on FB, became FB friends with DH’s ex wife. Its all ugly, and I will weather it. But I will never be able to close to them again. I will forever hate those two.
Post # 11
@MistyBee: (jaw drops) I am so sorry.
Post # 13
@MistyBee: Oh my gosh. This is legitimately one of my biggest fears because I do talk about Weddingbee with people in real life occasionally. I try to be careful about what I say about people on the slim chance that they’ll find me.
I’m sorry this happened to you. What a spiteful witch!
Post # 14
@MistyBee: OMG I am so sorry. I’ve never deleted posts but I just deleted two topics I started for fear of this ever happening to me.
Post # 15
What the hell?! That woman needs to deal with her own life; clearly she thinks she doesn’t have issues and you do when you’re just being human.
Post # 16
- Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY
Wow, so sorry you’re going through this. Hope everything turns out fine eventually. Thanks so much for sharing with the intent to help others. Hugs 🙂