(Closed) Major future family issues

posted 9 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I would suck it up and forget about it! He wasn’t invited, the niece’s aunt explained the situation to her and she still won’t let it go. I think the niece is being quite immature. If you established a guest list rule in reference to "plus one" then stick with it. Don’t let one person ruin your big day!

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2018

Is the niece living with her boyfriend? How long have they been together?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

You are about to be family. This boyfriend of the 21-year-old isn’t. I wouldn’t fret about it. You are following etiquette….and honestly, people are a little selfish when it comes to weddings. They should never assume that they can bring a date, unless noted. The bride and groom have a budget, and will allow for what they can afford. period.

You’ve already set your limits, so do not budge!! From how it sounds, you’ve handled the situation tactfully thus far.

Post # 7
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1266 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I would suck it up and forget it, this will pass…its something so stupid and petty to be upset about! girl needs to chill!

Post # 8
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776 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Def suck it up, it will pass. She is in college, its a family event, she does not NEED her bf there! If they were enagged it would be one thing, but they arent. And a lot of college relationships dont last.

Post # 9
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1514 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Forget about it, you have enough on your plate.  If you give in on this, they’ll run you over with the next thing.  Good luck!

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’m sorry to hear all this drama is happening over such a trivial thing. I say do NOT invite the neice’s bf. If the neice decides not to come that’s her perogative…your fi’s family understands so that should be that.

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