6 days to go - feeling anxious
more by PeytonL79
A week and a half to go!
The Dirty 30
more in The Lounge
Thanksgiving without the Relatives
Seamstress/Alterations
more in Boards
My turn - cant decide between two dresses!

Major Thanksgiving bummer. :-(

posted 2 years ago in The Lounge
  •  
    1.
    Member
    443 posts
    Helper bee
    PeytonL79    12/6/2009   DC Area

    My mom just called and told me that she can't come for Thanksgiving tomorrow.  She lives 3 hours away, in a town she just moved to, and will wind up spending Thanksgiving alone now.  Why?  She's a museum director, and the financial management committee of her museum told her that she had to cut her budget by about 8% - and they want to see a revised budget by Friday morning.  So it's not like it's worthwhile for FI and me to go to her, either - she said she'd be spending a lot of time working (plus we have 3 friends coming over tomorrow too).

    The thing that upsets me the most is how much she was looking forward to it - we had been talking about it for a couple of months.  Plus my wedding is the weekend after next, and we were going to do last-minute wedding things together, like putting together the OOT bags.  She was looking forward to that too.

    Anywho, I guess unless some miracle happens and she figures out a quick and substantial way to slash her budget this afternoon (and she doesn't want to let anyone go), she's not going to be here.  I'm trying not to cry at work - I mean, I'll see her in just over a week - but still.  :-(

     
    2.
    14,581 posts
    Honey
    Beekeeper
    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    Send mom some thanksgiving goodies? I know it's VERY last minute but maybe a florist could drop somethin goff today?

    I'm sorry, that really sucks =(

     
    3.
    Member
    1,176 posts
    Bumble bee
    jhphi    January 1, 2008  

    So sad!  Can she maybe come on Saturday or Sunday, so you can still bond over the wedding tasks?  :(

     
    4.
    Member
    266 posts
    Helper bee
    LacyLust    May 21, 2011   Ohio

    Total Bummer. Not much adive here; just know how stressful it is to have to cut budgets. I'm sure she would love the flowers idea!!!

     
    5.
    Member Icon
    Member
    6,442 posts
    Bee Keeper
    KMSull    August 7, 2010   Lexington, KY (via Atlanta, GA)

    Frown I'm so sorry, that really stinks!

     

    Reply

    You must log in to post.





    Visit our sister sites eHarmony
    Online Dating
    eHarmony Advice
    Dating Advice
    Project Wedding
    Wedding Songs
    JustMommies
    Pregnancy Calendar
    Copyright 2004-2012, Weddingbee.com
     

    Find your vendors on Weddingbee

    Real reviews from brides in your area!

    Favors by Weddingbee

    • Favors by season

    Shop Now ยป

    Find Registry Find Registry Find Registry

    More
    User Posts Today
    Rojocameo 16
    Rivendeler 15
    Suikerbossie 9
    Future Mrs K 8
    ellisrobertson 8
    lionskitty 7
    keranos 7
    fivemonthsnotice 7
    janetsnakehole 6
    shychigirl 6

    The Lounge

    User Posts Today
    UpstateCait 1
    Sasha2011 1
    SutSip 1
    Sunfire 1
    KellyLouise 1
    peachacid 1
    Toastymama 1
    More