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    MrsJKH2be    October 2010  

    Soooo FI doesn't really like to kiss - like "make-out" kiss.  I love to have a sweet smooch every now and then!!  Its sexy!!  However, it seems like everytime (90%) I go in for the kiss he turns his head slightly and hides his mouth.  I am not a bad kisser (I've been told the opposite), and I've told him that it irritates me to no end that he does this!  I tell him  I am offended and he always says he didn't "mean" to turn his head or "he didn't know" I was trying to kiss him.  He also says that he is not in high school anymore and that kissing is overrated. 

    Do you and you FI/husband/SO still "makeout" aka "kiss"?

     
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    We definitely "makeout" often :D We have sort opposite schedules half the year so our goodbyes usually involve a mini-makeout session.. I love it!

    If it were up to the boy we would be doing that anytime we had a couple of spare minutes :p

     
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    futuremrscrawford    October 2, 2010   NYC

    Yes we makeout.  I think it's mostly my initiative, (warning, maybe TMI) because he knows it turns me on & sometimes gets him out of having to do much foreplay:-).  I think it's totally sexy.  And in my opinion, it's only "high school" if it's in public...i don't like watching people make out at all.

     
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    KansasPrincess11    January 8, 2011  

    I have to say, I loooooove a good make-out session :) Just like babyboo my FI is not here all the time so we have the hot and heavy "welcome home" kisses ;) I sometimes have to remind him that I need good kisses but he certainly doesn't have to be told twice ;) My main advice for you is that you should just make it clear that the kisses get you 'hot' (haha i'm so immature, i'm giggling right now...) and that will hopefully help!

     
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    MrsJKH2be    October 2010  

    Hahahaa It does turn me on!!  I love it - always have!!  And I would never do it publicly - I am totally against PDAs!  I don't even like hand-holding in public....

    I don't get it either - I am not someone who needs to be wined and dined or have jewelry/flowers/etc bought for me - just a sexy smooch (which is free!!) is all I need....

     

     
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    Firie    September 21, 2012   Australia

    I love to kiss.  To me its very intimate and sensual.

    My partner doesnt like kissing!!  He also says that hes not in high school anymore.  He will give me one or two kisses and is then like ok thats enough thats enough.

    Lol, he trys to make me happy by kissing me, and I appreciate that he tries.  But no, we don't really ever "make out"..... sometimes I wish we did, but oh well :)  Its good that we can find a middle ground either way.

     
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    Gemstone    July 2011   Cincinnati

    We're way into kissing! Not in public, but definitely when we're on our own. Kisses should be cherished and enjoyed throughout life, not just HS.

     
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    jamiemichelle    October 16, 2010   North Carolina

    We love to kiss like giggly little teenagers even after all this time... Sometimes hubby will just grab me and kiss me and it is oh so romantic! He is the best kisser I have ever had and he says the same about me so we do quite a bit of making out when he's around.

    Makes me wanna give him a big kiss right now... boo military =(

     
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    mountain.bride    December 12, 2009   Australia

    We kiss constantly although I wouldn't say we "make out" much except when we're doing the dirty. At least...not while we're awake. But the past few months we've woken up at least half a dozen times...making out. So we do it in our sleep apparently? Weirdos.

     
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    Ms. Caniche    September 18, 2010   Orange County, CA

    We also kiss all the time.  Mostly sweet kisses unless we are getting down and dirty... then it elevates to "make out"

     
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    sweetpea1031    March 19, 2011  

    we kiss all the time, but the making out was slowing down. I talked to him about it and now we make out all the time and there is no way he wants to skip it now because it makes me so happy. I did have to talk to him about it though.

     
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    hisgirl    December 10, 2010   Dallas

    We kiss constantly. We love kissing so why not?

     
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    Moose1209       Nashville, TN

    There is a lot of serious smooching in the Moose household.

     
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    Rosie Girl    September 18, 2010   Montana

    We kiss lots! I love it Kiss

     
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    2bedaugherty    August 21, 2010   Albuquerque

    Well see I'm slightly baised as FI and I are waiting until we are married to go all the way...but, I have already made it quite clear that even once we are married I still expect good make-out sessions!  :-)  I think we would be firm believers in them even if sex were on the table.

     
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    JsDragonfly    December 29, 2009  

    Yeah, we have makeout kisses ALOT, but that could also be that we only see eachother maybe once every 3 months, so there's a lot of pent-up kissing needing to happen. lol

     
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    zippylef    October 30, 2010   Norfolk, UK

    Man. I LOVE kissing! We kiss all the time. Everything from nose-rubbing, Eskimo kisses to full-on making out.

     
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    soontobemrskeen    December 9, 2010   Lakeland, FL

    We love kissing, smooching, pecking, even a little licking ;) 

    Sometimes though, my FI likes to smooch with me in public and while a quick kiss is fine, I'm not ok with making out or tongue in public, so I do the turn my head thing sometimes. But in pvt, its a different story. He loves kissing me and I love returning the small gesture of love.

     
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    piglet_625    January 1, 1991  

    We make out alllllll the time, but we're waiting soo... we better continue this after we're hitched!  I love it!!

    When we first started dating, we didn't kiss right away.  We started with Eskimo kisses, and to this day we still do that when we say goodbye.  I think we're going to do that at the alter too hehe... so fun!

     
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    vicarswifeintraining    September 9, 2010   Cardiff

    We make out in private, but I'm a fan of hugs, anywhere and everywhere! I just LOVE hugs!! I don't mind public stuff, in-fact like the hippy I am I love doing .. the dirty in the wild for want of a better word, rivers,hills, forests. And when ever one of us disappears on a train to somewhere boring I love a good kiss and a cuddle on the platform!

     
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    scournoyer418    July 30, 2011  

    If we make out it is because he wants more. So frustrating!!! I love to make out, smooch too but he is not as into it. I have also been told I am a good kisser. Who knows?!

     
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    helenberrycrunch    January 1, 1992  

    Lots of make outs here! More makeouts, says the boy. I will just have to put out there that I HATE tongue.

     
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    morgobride    June 5, 2011   Kansas City

    We kiss all the time, we are a very affectionate couple.  I loooove to makeout and so does FI. I can't say that we never kiss in public because we do but we try to keep it tasteful :)

     
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    MrsJKH2be    October 2010  

    Sooooo jealous!!  I guess I am going to have to hold out on sex so that we can go back to just making out :o)  hahhaa j.k.  OR I will have to ship him off for a few somewhere for a few weeks so he can appreciate my smooches more! hahahaa  

     
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    Miss Biner    November 5, 2011  

    We like to make out.  :D 

     
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    I'm kinda in the same boat.  We kiss, not make out, a lot but that is the extent of things.  It doesn't bother me too much.  I won't complain if it happened more often.  Every time we do make out, I know it won't just be making out.  

     
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    Jenn23    April 17, 2010   Philly suburbs

    We don't make out as much as we used to. Generally, if we make out, it's going to lead to something else. ;)  But we kiss quite a bit!

    And when we do have our make out sessions...wow!!! I don't understand why some think it's so "high school". It's fun!

     
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    gabrielleelise1981    August 28, 2010   Portland, Maine

    We like to kiss and make out - just NOT in public, that seems a little "high school". But in the privacy of your own home, yes please!!! :-)

     
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    clane616    May 7, 2011   Chicago; wedding in Florida

    I have the same problem.  There is very little kissing other than a peck.  Sometimes it bothers me but he's affectionate in other ways so I guess it's ok.

     
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    RecessionistaBride    January 28, 2012  

    We kiss a lot (not just pecks), but we don't make out unless we're getting jiggy with it. We cuddle & kiss throughout the day, but in public: not a single piece of affection is displayed. We'll hold hands now & then... but we save the good stuff for behind closed doors.

    The most his parents have seen us touch is when we snuck a few kisses by the pool when his mom was in the kitchen. Honestly... I always wonder if they think I'm cold. Especially since his parents are open with the PDAs.

     
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    Krispy1327    October 23, 2010   Seattle

    most definitely...usually my FI more than me...i love little smooches though...i completely think its NOT overrated or high school...its affection and every couple i think needs that!

     
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    MrsH1010       Chicago, IL

    I am so jealous right now! I love kissing and making out but FI is not into it. I am the most turned on when I can finally get him to do it but he rarely is in the mood!

     
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    Goodie    September 10, 2011   Midwest

    FI and I are totally the people you all hate! Haha. Seriously. We hug and hold hands and do sneaky little pecks in public All. The. Time. Like, literally, we'll be moseying through the mall holding hands and he'll say, "Spin," and twirl me around like we're dancing. If we're in a shop looking at any old thing, discussing it, etc, we'll most likely be standing there, arms around each other, hugging. People tell us we are so cute it's disgusting...

    Making out, however, is definitely private. It's not super common with us either. I think your FI should compromise with you. Kissing is fun! Definitely not just for high schoolers. =]

     
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    We give each other lots of kisses but anything really lingering he usually thinks I want something else or it leads to something else.

     
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    picturemeurs    February 2012  

    We're also waiting so mr knows better than to hold out on me. Not too big on PDA's but we sneak some in every now and again.

     
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    bunny    July 3, 2009  

    Mr. Bunny's kisses always leave me breathless and wanting more. Unfortunately we don't make out much for this very reason! It's hard to "just" kiss, you know? We always end up wanting the whole enchilada and there's not always time for that. I'm OK with stopping, but he gets whiny when I try to back off after he's turned on. ;)

    It's a bummer though because he is an AMAZING kisser!

     
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    MrsJKH2be    October 2010  

    Ugh, maybe I should show him this post?  hahahhaaa  I held out on sex tonight because he turned away when I went in for a kiss - he said it was because the game was on -hmmmmmm. 

     
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    Jenn23    April 17, 2010   Philly suburbs

    @MrsJKH2be  I would tell him how you feel! Nothing will change if you don't say something. Maybe he doesn't know how dissapointed you are. I don't forsee this getting any better if you don't tell him.  I would have been upset had my hubby turned away from a kiss due to the game. A one minute kiss isn't going to make him miss that much of the game. Did you tell him you were upset when he turned away? Obviously, all of us have times when we just don't feel like a kiss or making out, but if he's doing this all the time, that's not good. Talk to him! :)

     

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