(Closed) Making Love

posted 6 years ago in Christian
Post # 3
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864 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@audrie321:  Not all the time, it’s fun but its definately not love making like the movies. Sure there’s romantic nights but your average Tuesday is not going to fall into that catagory.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

What do you mean by “make it really special”?  If you mean does my husband make sure i enjoy myself, tell me he loves me ect, then the answer is yes.  But if you mean light candles, and ridiculous hollywood romance then the answer is no.  Sex is nothing like the movies as the pp said.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I can’t help but ask why this is in “Christian”?  I think it’s a valid question for anyone.

Agreed, movies do not equal life.

However sex can be very special with no movie theatrics.  I feel he makes it special by giving me his undivided attention, making sure I enjoy myself (from fun touches to the OMG that was good!). I feel it’s special because I can tell how much he loves me because it’s written all over his face.  The details will vary from couple to couple, but it’s the love and the wanting the other person to have fun, enjoy, feel loved, comfortable, etc that should be universal and make it special for each couple.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I agree with everyone that not every time do we go all out with the theatrics. My FI will actually light candles (he LOVES candles) and I get dressed up in fancy lingerie sometimes. Now that we live together those “special times” have decreased by a lot, but I still feel very special every time we have sex. It’s the way he holds my face, kisses every inch of me, and tells me constantly how beautiful I am. I love him and that’s what makes our sex special. I mentioned it briefly but I try to make it special for him on the movie-theatrics nights by wearing something I know he’ll love to rip off of me, and I try to listen to his breathing and noises when I know he is enjoying something I’m doing and I do it more. Also, I’ve given strip teases and I do regular boudoir photo sessions for him (my very good friend is a photographer and does them for me). Hope this helps!!

 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

We have a row of votive-size candles on our bed’s headboard:  but they’re the battery-powered ones however, hey even flicker realistically). We switch them on almost every night except if we’re dead tired and just falling asleep right away.

They’re perfect: through wonderfully flattering candlelight, but we also won’t burn the house down if we forget them on and fall asleep (which happens).

 

The way he kisses me, the way he breathes and touches and looks at me: that’s what makes it special and romantic like-the-movies.  A well placed, truthful compliment or some whispered thoughts from earlier in the day, plus the “candlelight” and I feel like the most cherished, loved woman.

Post # 11
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7609 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

He passes me a towel when we’re done or, if there isn’t one nearby, a sock.  He’s so sweet and romantic.  <3

Post # 12
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358 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

HAHAHA! This thread seriously made me laugh out loud at work!

Post # 14
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550 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Juliepants:  Hahaha mine hands me tissues. My hero!

Post # 16
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

@Juliepants:  Cute answer… my sweetie and I just high-tail it into the shower.

Which on more than one occasion has resulted in Round # 2

Haha

 

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