Making out?

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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Buzzing bee

I totally understand where you are coming from, but I make an effort to make your with my FI as much as possible. So no, it does not always end in sex. I find it helps keep us both interested and makes us feel closer, without always having to have sex. 

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I know exactly what you mean. Before we got married we did not have sex so made out a lot without it ending in sex. Now we only ever make out if it’s going to end in sex. I don’t know why that is. Maybe because we don’t really see each other very much due to our working hours so if we just made out as well as having sex….well we wouldn’t be getting much else done!

I think it is nice to have a time of just making out but it needs to be a time where you both know that’s what it is. Maybe when it’s that time of the month. 

Post # 4
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Helper bee

I love to make out with SO even thoughto be quite honest we never did without having sex. Lol (he was too sexy to pass up n I gave it up on the 2nd date. Lol) but anyways I feel like now that we are 5 years in we are so comfortable in just doing to the do than actually building up to it.  I’ve had to ask him multiple times to just slow it down and make out with me. He always gives me this weird look like he doesn’t understand. All I want is some pssionate kissing and face holding and maybe hands exploring while still kissing deeply. That’s what I like. Apparently he’d rather just get down to it. Lol. I don’t think I would mind if it didn’t end it sex but he might be upset and then it would also be hard for me to ignore the boner in his pants so id have to fix that too. So I guess it wouldn’t work after all. Lol

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Same here, making out always leads to sex. Im not really complaining though because when we first stsrted dating, my DH was not that great of a kisser, but the sex was great so we would just kind of skip ahead. Through a lot of gentle guidance, he’s really great at it now though and I love making out with him.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Nope, we pretty much never just make out anymore – it always leads to sex.  I’m not complaining, though, it’s all enjoyable 🙂

Post # 8
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Bumble bee

We quite regularly just make out,  it’s usually when we don’t have time for the whole thing because we’re heading out or if dinner will be ready in 5 mins or something or if one of us is too tired or when it’s that time of the month. We’ve been together 4.5 years and lived together for about 18 months. I think you just have to be in the habit of having a snog at times when sex isn’t an option

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I prefer a quickie to making out if we only have a few minutes. But ya, making out is means to an end for us 🙂

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

We dont actually Make-Out.. like, ever….

Post # 11
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Busy bee

Your partner doesn’t know what you want unless you tell them. If you want to makeout without having sex, say so! I actually just had this talk with my FI. Ilike kissing, and I hate when it’s always just a stop on the route to sex. Now we’re making more of an effort to make out just for the sake of making out.

Post # 12
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Newbee

I figure making out results in some type of sex 100 percent of the time.  The only b time it’s not straight sex is when I am having a heavy day during my period.  But I think that has always resulted in as blow job.  It did not used to, but hobestly, I LOVE sex.  I just can’t get it enough. When he is kissing me and rubbing the sides of my face and back if my neck, I have to fight the urge to rip his pants off.  

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

My FI and I live together AND work together. It’s my family business so it’s often him and I shutting the shop down and commuting home together, so it’s kind of a game for us if I can corner him alone before we go home and have a quick make out sesh. 

But at home, the only the time we make out and it doesn’t lead to sex is when one of us (or both) ends up falling asleep on each other haha

such is a adulthood I guess….

Post # 14
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Bumble bee

aka_nessa :  neither do we! SO doesn’t like it… we used to at the beginning and when I asked about it he was all: well at the beginning you kind of have to. Pffft how about “in the beginning I kind of had to give oral but not anymore”. Sheeesh

So now I ask for a min, 90 secs or whatever I feel I need and he complies lol

But it certainly doesn’t lead to sex!

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Kacey23:  wahhhh I miss the good old days of just making out. FI just likes little kisses and hugs or if we do makeout it’s because he wants me to know he wants to get laid hahaha

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