- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
Why? Why do people have to start showing their worst sides when it comes to planning weddings?!? I dont get it, shouldnt you be showing your best side? I mean really….
Sorry that this is my 3rd rant about my mother, but I really feel that typing it helps take some of the stress and anger out. Plus I have read some other posts and It doesnt seem that I am totally alone. (which sucks!)- for all of us that have to deal with these stupid issues on what should be the happiest times of our lives!!!
So, My mother is crazy. and not like “oh my, my mom is crazyyy” I mean, bi polar, insane, wont reason to anyone but herself. Hates my fiance bc he is “stealing her baby” and yadda yadda.
So, I decided the other day to finally say screw it and look for a wedding planner. I need someone to help me pull my ideas together, and help keep my sanity, and I need someone I can talk to, and help with set up and just ya know… help!!! So, I aso knew I wasnt going to spend a lot on her either. SO, I found one that is $300!!!! for like the full package!!! I perosnally think thats a GREAT dea!!
Well, I met with her… love her…. yaknow, just seems great, everything that she will do is what i need and jazz. SO I told my mom about her, and I said that I want my mom to meet her, to make sure she (my mother) likes her.
My moms reply was not so loving. She thinks its a waste of money, and what not, then she said “its not YOU that wants this, its HIM!” First off – why would HE give a crap if we had a wedding planner, second, ummm I want the planner.. and I told my mother this, and she wont believe me.
So thats just kinda irritating. This happy time is just sooo unhappy and irritating… if we wouldnt loose so much money, id be eloping quicker than anyone!!!
OHHH Also, (sorry just thought about this) It was my moms bday last week and i ordered her one of those canvas pics… where you give them a picture and they put it on a big canvas. WELL, its late… and I wanted to cook her dinner and give her the present. so today she text me and said “i want to sit down and talk to you” i said ok. she replies with “i THOUGHT i could do it on my BIRTHDAY dinner last week but guess that isnt going to happen and i dont even get a FLIPPING GIFT! WOW MEGAN”
I mean… Come on mother. come on.