Man bush

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
641 posts
Busy bee

I don’t think men have had it engrained into them that their body hair is revolting and shameful and if they let it get out of hand, they are sloppy, slovenly, gross looking people (or European) the way women do. I’d say a straightforward, honest “Babe. I keep getting pubes stuck to the roof of my mouth. You’re going to need to manscape that.” followed by compliments and praise when he follows through should do it.

Post # 4
3016 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

I just asked my FI and he suggested turning it into a fun sex act. I’m not sure how I feel about that. 

You could also go this route: “Babe, have you ever trimmed your man-fur? Some people at work were talking about it…” blah blah. But I’d be ready in case he asks, “Do you want me to?”

I’d say being honest is your best bet. In general, most guys are pretty “whatever” about that kind of stuff. He probably won’t care!

Post # 5
546 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I had this conversation with my FI and he trimmed it for me…and now it is a part of his usual routine..I just told him that I am not super confortable giving him blowjob with his bush (lol sorry for details)…and I would love to have more oral sex with him…blah blah…bush was trimmed the same night..

Post # 6
24457 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

The above ideas are all good.  If you get in a discussiong about it or he asks why you could always tell him that it will make it look bigger.

Post # 8
3016 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

I almost suggested that… but you have to be careful not to make him worry that you think it NEEDS to look bigger, lol.

Post # 9
3618 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@pinkrose23:  “Do you want me to get the weed wacker or would you like to handle this bush yourself?” 

IMO, it is better to just be straight forward 🙂 

Just let him know it is getting in the way of sex/oral and that it would be much better for him to have it be trimmed. The less you effort you need to put in keeping your moth hair free the more effort you can put into making him feel great.  I am sure he won’t be offended 🙂


Post # 10
2299 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

If I were to have that conversation, it would go something like this:

“If you want me to hang out downtown, you are going to have to trim back the bush a little. I love you babe, but I don’t love pubes in my mouth”

Followed up with:

Post # 11
408 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Haha!  @Bracelet00:  is SO freaking SPOT ON! They definitely DO NOT have it engrained. So much so that I told my husband that I prefer that he trims/shaves because he is too hairy down there and he did it TWICE yet when I didn’t shave for like a month, he literally told me that he wouldn’t go down on me until I shaved… bastard.

So, @pinkrose23: your best bet is to be straightforward and straight up say, “your pubes are out of control and gross me the fuck out. Shave.” and see what happens. Didn’t work for me but maybe it’ll work for you!

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