Post # 1
My dearest friends…I wish I had news like, “YAY LIFE ROCKS!” But it’s more like WTF?!?!?!?!?!?
Today, Lady T had her gallbladder out. I teased her for a bit because she wouldn’t let me keep her phone in my purse (WTF? right?!)…so when her mom ran to the bathroom, I got her phone out and typed in the password (0378–a number that means nothing to me and we’re sentimentals…all our numbers mean something). A few weeks ago I noticed she had a number in her phone called “Undercover :)”…odd, right? Not at all discrete. Her password is the last 4 digits of Undercover’s phone number.
So, I copied down the number and did a reverse look up–it’s her ex-girlfriend who is a big druggie. So here’s the scenario–Lady T has been using (she did previously, but knows I won’t put up with that…DEAL BREAKER) and she’s getting it from her ex. I can also only assume that their relationship is still ongoing–in some fashion.
I might be jumping the gun, but I know where situations like this head–if it hasn’t already.
Lady T has a very comfortable life with me…and now, as soon as she’s able to lift things, she’s out on the street. I’m done.
I’m embarrassed, hurt, and ashamed. You always think someone means well, but when it comes down to it, people are going to be who they are. She’s a user and a liar. And I’m not about to let it go down like this for my lifetime.
I love you all–thank you for supporting me.
P.S. her surgery went fine. And guess who paid for that?! yeah, me.
Post # 3
I’m so, so sorry that this happend to you, Miss Tiara. Keep your haed held high, and keep looking out for yourself. You are not the one to be embarrassed and ashamed, you seem like a very kind and loving person. You’ll find a person who does the same for you and genuinely enjoys it just as much.
Post # 4
Oh no 🙁 I’m so sorry, hon, this is awful. Lots of love and hugs coming your way.
Post # 5
So sorry to hear that, but sounds like you’re doing the right thing for you. Good luck.
Post # 6
I am so, so sorry Miss Tiara. I was really enjoying reading about your wedding planning. I think I read on one of your posts that you two had been dating for something like 12 years? It takes a truly selfish person to throw something like that away for an ex and drugs. Good for you for staying strong and not enabling her. I pray for nothing but the best in your future, please keep us updated on how you’re doing 🙁
Post # 7
Hugs!!! That’s awful, im so sorry you have to deal with this. Chin up for knowing to do the best thing for yourself, you deserve better and I’m glad that you know it. Good luck!
Post # 8
O no. My heart just broke for you. I am so sorry. I love reading your posts, you seem like such a warm-hearted person.
((HUGS)) from all of us!
You are doing the right thing. Stay strong, and please keep us updated. I’m so sorry.
Post # 9
I’m so sorry to have read this. My heart goes out to you, @Miss Tiara. Sending lots of hugs, good thoughts, and prayers your way.
Post # 10
That is horrible! My sympathies, dear!
Post # 11
Oh no!!! I’m sooo sorry to hear that Miss Tiara, hugs coming your way
Post # 12
I’m so sorry to hear that. /hugs
Post # 13
Oh Tiara! Good for you for standing your ground. Stay strong my dear…. you deserve the best. Always know you have a huge support system here.
Post # 14
I’m so sorry, Miss Tiara. Sending lots of hugs and love–good for you for realizing you deserve better, but I’m so sorry it had to happen like this. :/ Lots of hive love.
Post # 15
so sorry that you have to go through this!!! (((hugs)))
Post # 16
I’m so sorry to hear this. You have nothing to be ashamed or embarrased about. I wish you the best.