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    Nola    March 27, 2011   Traverse City, MI getting married in New Orleans

    March brides I know you all have been waiting for this post.  Girls at the start of the month have a short month left and the later girls have a little longer but this is the time that counts. 

    As always this will be our place to come to check off things on our list and motivate eachother on the progress in Feb. 

    So let's see this past week we bought FH's ring and picked our mine.  Yesterday I also picked out our ceremony songs and a few of the specialty songs for the reception.  OH and the big deal is we have started to pay off a few things. 

    TO DO LIST:

    1. Write programs

    2. Write Vows

    3. Get FH's ok on the ceremony that I already wrote and give to officiant

    4. Buy my ring

    5. Contact baker on changing grooms cake to cherry pie

    6. Decide on if we are doing seating assignments

    7.  Buy OOT bags

    8.  Buy silver tray for hankies

    9.  Make Favor tags

    10.  Finish making guest book

    11.  Order the photo cards for our guest

    12. track down people that haven't RSVPed

    13. Any other DIY projects (unity candle stand, moss letters, wreaths)

    14.  Rehearsal invites

    15. Buy my sons suite

    I think that is most of the important stuff but I am sure that I am missing some key elements. 

     
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    mandb122    March 6, 2011   Temporarily in Minnesota, From South Carolina, Wedding in Charleston

    I hate doing this but I know it keeps me on track.

     

    1.  Finish getting gifts for parents/bridal party

    2.  Buy ties and socks for the guys

    3.  Paint part of our cake topper

    4.  Finish our wooden B by aging it

    5.  Buy two more vases for the centerpieces

    6.  Buy fabric markers (if anyone has recommendations, I've been looking for soft blues, pinks, greens, purples, etc)

    7.  Get speakers for our Ipod and make the ceremony playlist

    8.  Reserve the nail appointment

    9.  Have my hair/makeup trial (this is scheduled for Saturday)

    10.  Get our marriage license (hopefully Friday)

    11.  Decide on what to do as far as cake stands go (rent or make)

    12.  Order and put together favors

    13.  Pick up my wedding band and order his

    14.  Decide on wines/champagne/appetizers for reception

    15.  Get people to send back their RSVPS! (Kidding, sort of.  But seriously, we still have only gotten two back and people close to us are like "Oh, I just haven't done it yet/I forgot")

    16.  Reorder my shoes since I need a half size smaller and had to return them

     
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    soontobemrsinaz    March 12, 2011  

    1. Mentally will people to RSVP

    2. Make hair/nail/massage/waxing appts

    3. Write personal notes to my BMs

    4. Send final numbers to all vendors

    5. RELAX :)

    Apparently I have managed to do or delegate everything away.

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    January Completed:

    • Number, wrap, address, and send out invitations (scheduled for the first week of January)
    •  (scheduled for the first week of January) Pushed to first week of February
    • Order candy for candy bar (scheduled for the second week of January) Pushed to first week of February
    • Purchase scoops/tongs for candy bar
    • Finalize tux rentals (scheduled for the first week of January)
    • Get insurance certificate for serving alcohol at venue
    • Purchase items for bathroom baskets (scheduled for completion by mid-March)
    • Purchase bags for candy/cookies/other favors
    • Practice walking up and down the stairs in my crinoline and shoes
    • Practice going potty in my crinoline and shoes
    • Get FI and sons fitted for tuxes (scheduled for January 29th)
    • Go to another cake tasting to drop off certificate for 10% off cake order (scheduled for January 29th)

    February To Do:

    • Order flowers for the bouquets (scheduled for the first week of January) Pushed to first week of February
    • Make cookies; chocolate chocolate chip and peanut butter, for the candy/cookie bar
    • Decorate scoop and tongs for candy bar (need to schedule a trip to Michaels and/or Joanns)
    • Make signs and labels and decorations for the candy/cookie bar (scheduled for the second week of January) - partially done - Pushed to second week of February
    • Hire bar service for cocktail hour/reception (scheduled for the second or third week of January) Appointment scheduled for February 4th
    • Get banquet permit for serving our own alcohol (scheduled for mid-March)
    • Get marriage license (scheduled for early to mid-March) (now scheduled for February 11th)
    • Finish paying vendors (scheduled for completion by mid-March)
    • Finish getting grooms gifts and something to put them in
    • Schedule second fitting with seamstress (scheduled for February 4th)
    • Make menus (scheduled for third week of February)
    • Make place cards (scheduled for third week of February)
    • Schedule final fitting (scheduled for second or third week of March)
    • Finish sewing party dress
    • Make jacket for party dress
    • Get music to DJ
    • Get final numbers to caterer

     

     
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    Nola    March 27, 2011   Traverse City, MI getting married in New Orleans

    Looking good ladies!  This morning I set up our ceremony minus our vows.  I also wrote out three thank you notes for wedding gifts.  Have you guys started to get wedding gifts in the mail?

     
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    Nola    March 27, 2011   Traverse City, MI getting married in New Orleans

    @noritake22:  Looks like you have got a ton done!

    @soontobemrsinaz:  I wish my list was as short as yours!

    @mandb122:  Happy that you are sharing your list.  It also helps me keep on track.

    I haven't been doing hardly anything wedding related.  I did buy gift bags for out OOT bags yesterday and a few other Milk Glass items.  I think I am hitting the 50 days wall of I don't want to do anything...but yet I have so much to do. 

     
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    piglet_625    January 1, 1991  

    I am exactly one month out as of today (YAY!) and I still need to....

    Finalize ceremony music selections with musicians
    Go over ceremony with officiant... it's written, just needs to be "checked"
    Finish buying girls gifts/writing notes/wrapping
    Finish printing off pictures of us for at the reception
    Fold our ceremony quizzes
    Buy sparklers for our send off
    Figure out what the heck I'm putting on top of our cake

    After that it's just the week of stuff like the final seating chart and sending money to vendors.
    FINALLY... I am really over planning and am just excited for the day to BE here already!

     
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    piglet_625    January 1, 1991  

    @Nola: Yes we've gotten a few from older relatives who aren't coming!

     
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    mandb122    March 6, 2011   Temporarily in Minnesota, From South Carolina, Wedding in Charleston

    So far this month I bought the gifts for the girls (necklaces), ordered the fabric markers, had my hair and makeup trial, bought his wedding band (mine should be ready to be picked up this week), decided to just rent the cake stands, and reordered and received my shoes in a better size (yay Zappos for free one day shipping Smile).  I'm hoping this weekend to age the wooden B, get the paint for the cake topper, find the vases (hopefully one more trip to Goodwill will do the trick), and possibly make the nail appointment as well as get our marriage license. 

     
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    Nola    March 27, 2011   Traverse City, MI getting married in New Orleans

    @mandb122:  Where did you find your B, how big is it and how do you go about giving it an aged look?  I saw your hair trial pics and you looked amazing!  Looks like you are getting lots of stuff done this month.  I haven't really done hardly anything.  We also ordered FH's ring and saw it yesterday but had to send it off to get hammered and should get that back at the end of the month.  Yesterday I made a shopping list on my phone of everything that I still need to buy for the wedding.  It seems like when we are at the store I never remember stuff.    Oh and I did our rehearsal invites.  It is up to his parents to get those all out though.  I am currently also chasing down our RSVP's.  The due date has pasted and we are at 36% of people have replied and that is AFTER sending out messages. 

     
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    mandb122    March 6, 2011   Temporarily in Minnesota, From South Carolina, Wedding in Charleston

    @Nola: We bought our B at Michael's.  It's pretty small but we figured we don't have to order it and wait for it to come, it was already painted white, and it was within budget (it was only like $5 or less - I can't remember the exact price).  I found aging stuff online that I'm going to try to find again at Michael's.  It's a glaze that you put on and let it sit for a day and it cracks the paint.  They also have it with paint so it's just two coats of the paint and it cracks itself.  And the RSVPs are starting to get on my nerves.  Our due date isn't until Friday but we only have 32% back which is low considering we only sent out 25 invitations.  And thank you, I thought she did a really good job on my hair. Smile

     
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    mandb122    March 6, 2011   Temporarily in Minnesota, From South Carolina, Wedding in Charleston

    It took me a minute to find it but the wooden B that we bought is about seven or eight inches tall if that helps.  And here's an example of stuff you can use to age it. 

     

    http://www.amazon.com/Valspar-80-6461-03-Pickled-McCloskey-Special/dp/B000I1EGLA/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&m=A1QM958FO8XIS1&s=merchant-items&qid=1297173417&sr=1-2

     
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    eliwhit    March 12, 2011   Ohio

    okay, I have to start doing this.

    february to do:

    finalize all men's tuxedos

    final two fittings for dress (one tomorrow, one a week before)

    final meetings with: caterer, cake, photographer, venues, flowers, DJ

    pick out some table linens

    finalize room set up and seating table

    find manzanita tree for wishing tree, cut out leaves for seating/writing

    write vows

    write and print programs (put together programs... blah, so sick of DIY)

    finalize beer and wine menu

    shop for honeymoon :D

    marriage license

    hair and make up trial

    order cake topper

    track down late RSVPs

    figure out unity candle and communion table

    make do not play and must play lists

    figure out ceremony music (I am so excited to have my super talented friend play piano for us, he's amazing, we just have to pick the songs... and he's in LA right now.)

    get away outfit?

    make hotel reservations for night-of

    reserve block of rooms at hotels

    figure out how to make my bridesmaid gifts prettier... they're getting a monogrammed LL Bean tote with a survival kit in it, but right now the survival kit is just in a plastic bag because it's so expensive. maybe make a drawstring bag with some fabric from joann's? I'm just creating work for myself at this point... sigh.

    make nail appointment

    make waxing appointment? yikes

    get grooms gifts

    guest book

    parents gifts

     

    I think that's it... I so can't wait for this vacation!

     
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    missbiscuit    March 12, 2011   Sonoma County, CA

    Meetings:

    • Hair & Makeup trial this Saturday- finalize wedding day look during trial or soon after
    • Meet with DJ this Saturday- finalize music selections & timing
    • Final fitting this Sunday- finalize bustle choice
    • Schedule meeting with DOC- hand off timeline rough draft, vendor info
    • Schedule walkthrough with venue/caterer/DOC-- 2/17??

    Crafts:

    • Pick any last DIY projects and to complete and get them done ASAP
    • Finish favors!!!  (choose songs for Mix CD, finish designing booklet, assemble)
    • Make signage for bathroom baskets, flip flop basket, guest book table, cake flavors, favor table, ceremony seating, ring warming??
    • Make cake stands
    • Seating Chart window
    • Make sugar cookie dough & freeze/refrigerate for cookie making a few days before wedding

    Decisions to make/logistics to figure out:

    • Finalize ceremony/reception layout (where is what decor going [ie- candles, flowers, etc.]?  where is cake going?  guestbook? cheese table during cocktail hour? [and where to move the table for that display to after cocktail hour??] the DJ? Favors?)
    • Decide if we're doign menus?  If so- make them.
    • Decide on who do first reading during ceremony.
    • Decide if we're doing a ring warming
    • Are we staying at home or a hotel on wedding night?  If hotel book ASAP.
    • Who will transport us from venue to our home/hotel?  Hire transportation??
    • Groom gift?  (spa?  ring engraved?)  get card & give to MOH on Friday
    • Finalize rehearsal dinner plans
    • Finalize bridesmaid brunch plans
    • Finalize no-host-bar drink meetup plans for Friday & spread the word
    • Finalize Sunday meet up/present opening plans w/ bridal party & parents
    • Vases or something for bouquets after ceremony?

    Other:

    • EXERCISE
    • Buy sodas (& Snapple?) for our caterer to have for distribution (it's cheaper to get it at Costco and have them give it out then to buy it through them)
    • Finalize jewelry choices. *Get new chain for my necklace pendant- current one is too short
    • Finish bridesmaid gifts (purses?  jewelry? pashminas? emergency kits?)
    • Buy tie for best man
    • Finalize program with printer.  Buy ribbon for edging.
    • Notify MOH & MOH that we want them to do speeches.  Let parents know is optional for them.
    • Seating chart
    • Buy extras for guestbook tree- frame, paper for test prints, trash can, pens, mug for pens, baby wipes
    • Get our marriage license
    • Get my e-ring dipped & engraved
    • Order moo cards for photo sharing instructions
    • Finish list of must have photos for photographer
    • make appt. for spa day morning of or day before wedding (massage? manicure? pedicure?)
    • Postcards for alternative guest book?
    • Find basket/box for programs
    • Find basekt/box for cards
    • Find basket/box for favors
    • *Note to DJ: announce time change that night!
    • check that hanger dress comes home on is "nice enough" for pictures
     
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    ManciasToBe    March 11, 2011   Austin

    i'm finished!! except i have to go to my hair & makeup trail but thats it

     
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    lola2011    March 4, 2011   Chicago

    Just about done! All appointments made, just booking Limo for day of and looking into groomsmen gifts.

    OH! And I have to print a few things. But man. It feels good to say DONE!

     
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    Nola    March 27, 2011   Traverse City, MI getting married in New Orleans

    @lola2011 and ManciasToBe:  Congrats girls!  I wish I was in your position.  Less then a month for you gusy! 

     

    I personally keep thinking that I am not getting anything done.  However, I have noticed my list gets smaller and smaller....then bigger and bigger because I forget about things.  I am thinking tomorrow we will go order my ring or sometime very shortly.  I contacted the baker today because I need the cake size down for 150 to 75 and I am only going to do one pie due to the smaller size.  Last night I FINALLY asked my brother to do the reading in our wedding and today we started working on our vows. 

     

     
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    Nola    March 27, 2011   Traverse City, MI getting married in New Orleans

    I just wanted to say good luck to all of the girls getting married next week!  I hope you got everything done and are feeling GREAT!

     

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