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    vistagirl    march , 2010   Oregon

    We need to pick a cellist and mail the invitations, order some flowers and FINISH my mostly done diy projects.

    this weekend i finished the guestbook and lots of the hotel details (welcome bags) etc, and finished all the invitations.

    I still feel like I am forgetting things though!

    What do you have left?

     
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    Lees4308    March 13, 2010   Panama City Beach, FL.

    Oh yay you're a March bride too! I'm pretty much done. Except I'm adding a sash to my wedding dress, so I have to take that up to the bridal shop, & I have to find my bridesmaids some shoes to wear. I'm having trouble with that! I have to pick out an officiant but my wedding planner is making it easy. So, not much more to do!!

    2 more months!!!! :)

     
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    vistagirl    march , 2010   Oregon

    Anyone worried about the weather?

     
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    Miss Hot Sauce    3/13/2010   Cypress, TX

    Wow, you guys are so ready, I'm totally not! Still need to finish and mail the invitations - trying to get it done by this weekend.

    - need to make pomanders

    -deciding on tuxes this weekend - FI is going for his fitting.

    - I still have 2 bridesmaids that have not ordered their dresses!

    - need to print kids activity books and assemble their baskets

    - still deciding if I want personalized napkins or not

    In a nutshell still so much to do!!

    Vistagirl - Yes!! I am so worried about the weather!! Houston is usually warm by March, but you can never really tell. It will change from one weekend to the next. This winter has been so unusually cold, I hope it does NOT stick around! I'm starting to wish I wasn't so stubborn and booked the wedding in April or May. ;)

     

     

     
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    Lees4308    March 13, 2010   Panama City Beach, FL.

    @Miss: Oh my goodness! Your girls better get on the ball with ordering those dresses! And actually, I haven't sent out the invites yet..I forgot to mention that! I'm doing that the end of this month :)

    I'm somewhat worried about the weather! I hope hope hope it's nice!

     
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    Miss Hot Sauce    3/13/2010   Cypress, TX

    Lees4308 - Oh I know!! I was on them and on them and most of them (there are 6) got it done and one did have to rush order it. The two left, one is my oldest friend and the other is her daughter. She is supposed to get them this week, but I am so worried that they will not be able to get it in time. What do you do in that situation? Are they just not in the wedding anymore? I wouldn't be that heart broken as our relationship has become very distant in the 2 1/2 years (!) I've been engaged...but I'd feel bad about her daughter. I've watching this little girl grow up and she's a sweetie and so excited about it.

    Phew! I know its probably not a big deal that I didn't get the invites out by the new year like I wanted, but my RSVP date is Feb. 1 so I want to get them out with at least 1-2 weeks of that date! :)

     
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    Nexus-6    March 12, 2010   Portland

    Let's see, I/we still have to:

    Find a florist (I only need 1 bouquet and 1 bout, so no biggie)

    Order my veil

    Choose a headband

    Get my dress altered! It's coming in in February, good thing it's short...

    Buy Fiance a suit/tie

    Get my wedding band made (getting done this week!)

    Hire fancy car to drive us day-of

    Choose menu at reception venue

    And other little things like a strapless bra and a wedding purse. 

     
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    vistagirl    march , 2010   Oregon

    anyone still need to write vows? I just remembered that!

     
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    Nexus-6    March 12, 2010   Portland

    Oh I just remembered we still need to get our Marriage License! Don't forget that part :)

     
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    vistagirl    march , 2010   Oregon

    oh! I did forget that! I feel like for every one thing i cross off my list I add 2 that i forgot!!!

     
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    WDWBride    March 3, 2010   Walt Disney World

    We have 7 weeks left!! Here's my list

    -Get Df a smaller size suit jacket from all the weight he's lost. He also needs a white shirt and shoes

    -Finish Ceremony

    -Finish downloading music for the reception

    -Buy bridal party gifts

    -Pay off vendors

    -Get headpiece/headband

    -Pack

    -Give final headcount (RSVPS are due on Friday!)

    I think that's it!!! I'm getting so excited, I can't believe we are so close!

     
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    I can't believe we're almost at the two month mark!  (And I guess some March brides already are!)

    We need to print our programs - I'm going crazy waiting for my SIL to determine if my niece will really be our flower girl or not.  I'd like to print them and get them over with!

     

     
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    Samisomsam    March 13, 2010   Longview, WA

    Oh boy.

    -Order flowers (after we decide on real or artificial)

    -Finish counseling

    -Dress alterations

    -Centerpiece mockup

    -Plan rehearsal dinner

    -Mail invitations

    -Find a place to live

    -Check into insurances (combining)

    -Finalize what decorations we need and finish buying them

    -Engagement announcement in the local newspaper

    -Finish etching toasting glasses and sand vase (and buy sand)

    -Make our card box

    -Discuss the ceremony with our officiant

    -Set the day-of schedule

    -Get marriage license

    -Get our music to the sound guy at the church

    -Finish paying balances

    -Confirm with vendors

    -Figure out how much food we'll need

    -Print programs

    And there's more, but I'm tired of typing.

    Wow, that's a long list.

     
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    vistagirl    march , 2010   Oregon

    @samisomsam that is a long list- it looks kinda like mine. I only posted the highlights *gulp*

     
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    schadenfreude    March 26, 2010   The Desert

    It's easier to say what we HAVE done:

    - Secured a venue

    - Bought a dress

    - Ordered invites

     

    Yeah. That's about it. Narrowing down the event package which will include the DJ, musicians, lighting, centerpieces, flowers, photographer, videographer, photobooth. All in one signature! I'll feel a lot better after that signature.

    Then we gotta choose the menu. And the tux. And my shoes, etc. And do hair/makeup.

    And plan the honeymoon. And find an apartment to move into.

     
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    SaraFoxy0328    03/28/2010   Dallas, TX

    Let's see....

    • Create centerpieces
    • Finish invitations
      • lining envelopes, tying pocketfolds close, addressing RSVP envelopes, stamping RSVP envelopes
    • finalize the ceremony
    • engagement shoot (I know, I know!)
    • go to final dress fitting
    • finalize ceremony and reception music
    • make a card box
    • figure out alcohol
    • ATTEMPT NOT TO LOSE MY MIND!

    I know that's not everything, but I'm going from off the top of my head...and that's a long enough list for winging it.

     
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    MissACS    March!  

    - flowers

    -centerpieces

    -fittings for me

    -pay balance on dress/veil

    -buy undergarmenty things

    -decide on shoes

    -find jewelry (should be easier now that dress is in)

    - finalize cake order and design

    - finalize DJ play/do not play list

    - timeline

    -finalize alcohol order with bartender

    -oot bags

    dammit I'm forgetting something already

     
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    on one hand i really appreciate this post and everyone's lists because it helps me out, but i also can't help but feel some serious anxiety! here's my incomplete list:

    -fittings

    -pay balance on EVERYTHING

    -finalize menu for rehearsal dinner and reception

    -make OOT bags

    -make escort cards/favors

    -programs

    -menus

    -ceremony

    -finalize ipod music list

    -finalize cake design

    -create detailed timeline

    -finalize flowers

    -check in with vendors to get on same page, determine arrival times, etc.

    -hound guests to RSVP

    and that's not even the complete list!

     
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    Lees4308    March 13, 2010   Panama City Beach, FL.

    @miss hot sauce: I totally forgot about this post!! I'm sure you did too. I actually had A LOT of trouble trying to get the girls to order their dresses. My deadline was September 30th & then the girls kept giving me excuse after excuse but finally ordered them around late October or something. If my girls were this late on getting their dresses and they haven't been giving me any kind of idea with what they're doing, I'd say yeah...they're pretty much out of the wedding. I hate that though for the little girl :( But it is how it is! I wouldn't offer them the $$ because they need to have some kind of commitment in being in your wedding.

    I'm so sorry you're having to deal with that! I was so stressed after the girls not even ordering their dresses around September, I can only imagine the way you're feeling now. Just talk to them & tell them you love them dearly, but it's been way past the deadline now & you can't have the chance of your wedding not going smoothly. After you tell her that, if she decides that she wants to pay...then awesome! But chances are, she probably won't!! :(

     

    SO EXCITED THOUGH LADIES...I'M NOW IN THE 1 MONTH RANGE...WOOP WOOP!!

     
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    vistagirl    march , 2010   Oregon

    @misspug when did you send out your invites if you can already hound guests? I am dying to know who is coming!!! lol

     
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    WDWBride    March 3, 2010   Walt Disney World

    Girls I have 43 days and counting!! I bought my shoes and a headband over the weekend...running out of stuff to do!!!

     
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    Farfromachildbride    March, 2010   Boston

    Where to start???...  We're having a DW so a lot of this has to be done when we actually visit the wedding city late this month. 

    Alterations
    Wedding band for him
    Mail invites (Feb 1)
    Meet with florist (scheduled)
    Meet with cake lady (scheduled)
    Get marriage license (scheduled)
    Meet with minister (scheduled)
    E-pics/Meet with photog (scheduled)
    Welcome letter & bags
    Order programs
    Purchase favors (already identified)
    Seating chart/seating cards/table cards
    Finalize song picks for harpist @ ceremony
    Finalize song picks for band @ reception
    Find a rehearsal dress
    Find a photog for 2nd reception

    Ugh.  TG it's a late March wedding.  I fear we're going to need every single day!!

     

     
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    Msmacu    March 6,2010   Kissimmee, Florida

    OMG LADIES ...I thought I had only few things left but after reading all your list Im sooo behind!! Check it out:

    - Send out invites (this week)

    - Make appointment with florist

    - But the head piece

    - over bridal accesories including underwear

    - But groomsmen suit

    - Buy the chocolate to make the lollipops for favors

    - Buy guest book

    - Buy invitation box

    - E-Photos (scheduled)

    - Finish pre-marriage classes

    - book hair/ makeup appointment

    - Pay off everything

    - Buy the champange

    - plan the rehearsal dinner

    - Passport ( doing this week)

    - Book hotel

    - And i think i have more ... ahhhhh gotta get back on track !! good luck girls "OUR TIME IS NEAR" YEYYYYY

     
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    Msmacu    March 6,2010   Kissimmee, Florida

    Sorry for all the typos Hives... its the stress j/k * lol

     
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    spaniel    March 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    I need to get my dress altered (it'd be nice if it, I don't know, CAME IN), do placecards and seating arrangements, finish writing our ceremony, finish getting all the parts for our centerpieces, and select the rest of our music. Oh, and start tracking RSVPs!!

     
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    HereComesTheSun    March 6, 2010   Houston, TX

    - Send out invites (as soon as we recieve them!)

    - Decide on reception music and book

    - Decide on menu

    - Find guest book

    - Meet with pastor/director of music to plan ceremony

    - design programs

    - Engagement Photos

    - Pay balances

    - final dress fitting

    - Put together out-of-town goodies

     

     

     

     

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