- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
Thursday night, we had a huge fight. I won’t get into extreme details, but it involved possible infidelity or at least a situation that looked really really suspicious. Anyway, that night he went to his best friend’s house (his friend called me to tell me he was there). I honestly had no problem with him staying there that night because I was beyond upset and really didn’t want to see him at that point. I figured we would just talk the next day and work on everything. The only problem is he has yet to return home. I’ve gone over there to talk to him, and he keeps saying he doesn’t want to talk about it. I’ve asked if/when he’s coming home, and he says he doesn’t know. He doesn’t answer my calls or texts. He swears that the woman in question is just a friend, and even justifies it by saying he tried to hook her up with his friend (which I knew about). However, he admitted to me today that he’s called her a few times this week. But she’s just a friend?! I’m his wife, and he won’t talk to me at all but he’s called her a few times this week! Yesterday we talked shortly and he said he loves me and doesn’t want to divorce yet he’s still not home or trying to do anything to resolve the situation. I am sick to my stomach. I’m furious about the situation with her, and yet I’m in so much pain because my marriage is ending. I emailed him and said I’ve had enough and he can either be my husband and come home to work through things with 100% honesty or we can go ahead and file for divorce and go our separate ways. The whole situation is killing me. I feel like I’m going crazy. I don’t know what to do. All I know is I can’t stop crying.