- 5 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
I’m curious about this.
My ‘best’ friend of 20 years, who was my bridesmaid, sent me a very arrogant cold hearted email immediately after my wedding, telling me that she was only in my wedding because I asked her, she never wanted to be, and she was just honouring her word, and that she was now blocking all communication and ending our friendship and never to talk to her again. I never saw it coming, I have no idea why. I was pretty easy on my bridesmaids during the planning, I didn’t ask for a lot at all and let them even pick their own individual dresses. And I defended her along the way when she was absent for events and unresponsive. I just gave her the benefit of the doubt.
So, needless to say, I’m shocked, I feel beyond betrayed, I should have cut her out in the beginning when she was acting lukewarm about it, and I can’t believe that a person can be that awful. What a low low thing to do.
I also know several friends who are no longer friends with at least one of their bridesmaids due to a falling out.
It’s sad, now you have these people in your wedding pictures that make you angry just looking at them. But it seems to be a common thing.