(Closed) Married bees, did you smash cake in each others faces?

posted 6 years ago in Married Life
  • poll: Did you smash cake in each others faces?
    Yes. : (18 votes)
    8 %
    No. : (194 votes)
    87 %
    He/she did mine, but I didn't do his/hers. : (1 votes)
    0 %
    I did his/hers but he/she knew better than to do mine! : (7 votes)
    3 %
    Other/Explain. : (4 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    317 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    We didnt’–my husband and I both hate that tradition.  We fed each other very gently and I thought it was one of the sweeter moments of the reception.

    Post # 4
    2204 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Absolutely not.

    We cut the cake, put the piece on a plate and fed each other with a fork.

    Post # 5
    8738 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Nope, we were very nice about it.

    Post # 6
    1927 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Hell to the no. 

    Post # 7
    3167 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    no, we didn’t. although Darling Husband picked up a bite sized for him (aka HUGE) while i fed him a tiny bite so i did get more cake than i could handle!

    Post # 9
    3363 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    I think smashing it ruins the moment and makes a mess.  I also think it is disrespectful to eachother.  Many people go right from cake cutting into father/daughter dance, and I wouldn’t have wanted cake on my face for that.


    Post # 11
    6010 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    No.  My husband was very adamant about NOT wasting cake, lol.

    Post # 12
    145 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Nope, I know he was tempted but saw the look on my face and thought better of it! i just saw pics from someone else’s wedding on FB and they COVERED each others faces in frosting. Like, forehead to chin covered. I would’ve been pissed. 

    Post # 13
    1175 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    My hubby joked that it would be awesome to smash cake in my face, but I told him no way–I didn’t want that sweet moment turned into a messy cake war.  That being said, I made him feed me first so that I could get him back if he didn’t listen to the “rules.” 😀

    I kind of look like I’m shoving it down his throat LOL



    Post # 14
    5786 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    No, he knows that would not have ended well for him

    Post # 15
    1493 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2009

    No. My husband did a little dab of frosting, but that was about it. I’ve also seen pics of couples covered in frosting which is just unattractive and not cool. I thought that there’s a superstition where if you smashed cake together, you might divorce. It’s something like that.

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