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    nicoleashlee05    August 7, 2010   Pikeville, Ky.

    To all married brides out there,

    How many people did you invite and how many people actually showed? I know every situation is different, but I really need some comfort here!!

     

     

     
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    Moose1209       Nashville, TN

    We invited 168 and had 145

     
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    bloodgo1    May 14, 2010   Royal Oak

    We invited around 180 and about 155 actually showed.

     
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    Bride109    October 9, 2010   Rochester, NY

    I read somewhere that  you could bank on about 10% not showing, but I"m not sure that is the case in all situations. I mean, our wedding is very small and mostly family, so I'm fairly certain our amount of people who don't come will be far less.

     
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    hisbunny    March 13, 2010   ND

    I think that we invited about 400 people and about 270 showed.  BUT, we were expecting that because the wedding was in AK (where I am from) and there was only 5 people from the grooms side because he is from MN...(sorry Hunny) and my extended family is all in CA and MA and FL.

     

    So, that was not a traditional case.

     
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    hnjunebride    June 27, 2010  

    How many did you invite nicoleashlee05 ? We have got almost 100 (eek) it was suppose to be more like 50 uh oh hope it all works out

     
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    PurdueGrace    October 10, 2009   IN/PA

    Invited 250, attended 150. So basically we had 60% attendance which we thought was pretty good considering approximately 85% of our guest list was from out of town.

     
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    nicoleashlee05    August 7, 2010   Pikeville, Ky.

    Well, last night we had a catastrophic awareness that my FMIL had invited more people than we had first confirmed. Soooo, we're looking at 300 people, hoping to have 250. Is that realistic?

     
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    pendola      

    We invited almost 200 and about 50-60 showed up.

     
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    tammyt112    May 29, 2010  

    only 4 our of 100 people we invited are not coming, but we'll see in 11 days

     
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    nicoleashlee05    August 7, 2010   Pikeville, Ky.

    Well, the wedding is 35 minutes from my hometown, an hour away from most church friends and at least 1/3 of his family lives out of state. I'm just so afraid people are going to roll in because nobody has been married in either of our families in quite some time! UHHHH.. WHY DIDNT WE RUN! lol

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    We invited 100 and had 30 attend.

     
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    owlbride    October 10, 2009   Houston

    We invited 150 and had 100 attend. For the in-town guests, we had a 86% acceptance rate, and for the out-of-town guests, we had a 57% acceptance rate. 

     
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    ADMBoston    August 14, 2009   Boston

    we invited 201 and ended up with about 160.

     
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    sadie    9/19/2009   Seattle,WA/Bend,OR

    We invited 133 and had 85 attend, although most of those not attending were +1s for single guests or children since most couples opted to enjoy our destination wedding as a vacation without the kids. 

     
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    stephbolt    April 30, 2010   Philadelphia, PA/Frederick, MD

    Invited 160, had 114.

     
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    Adira    October 3, 2009   New England

    We invited 32 and had 28 attend.  :P

     
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    s_h_e_l_b_s    May 8, 2010  

    we invited 168 and ended up with a wonderful 108!

     
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    ddubzz    June 5, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    Getting married in less than 3 weeks, and as far as RSVPs:

    invited 160

    accepts 132

    I hope all 132 show up... we're paying per head!  Tongue out

     
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    rachelm1083    August 20, 2010   Chicago, IL

    @nicole - I think you're good with inviting 300, expecting 250.  We're going to invite 250 (first) and hope we get around 200-210 from that, then send out another 40 and see what happens.

     
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    bree72    December 31, 2008  

    Married in a town where 90% of the guests lived - 183 invited, 160 showed. 

     
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    vintage2010    April 10, 2010  

    We invited 450 and had 220 show-up. Our wedding was a 5 hour drive for my side and half of his side. The rest on his side were flying in from all over.

    My brother and SIL invited 450 too and had 250 show.  They had a wedding her in town so all of my side was around a 45 min drive.  And then the bride's side was half in town and half out of town.

    What we did was go through our list and mark the for sure Yes... ie. family, bridal party.  Then marked the for sure No. ie... elderly who can't travel etc.  Then that left us with the maybe's.  Which we did a best case/worst case number.

     

     
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    Beronicab    May 1, 2010   St. George, UT

    We invited 110 only 15 or so did not show up.

     

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