(Closed) Matching shoes for BM

posted 9 years ago in Shoes
  • poll: What kind of shoes did your BM wear?
    I selected the shoes--style and color. : (1 votes)
    10 %
    I gave them a color and they chose their own shoes. : (3 votes)
    30 %
    I didn't give them any specifics on shoes. They chose all on their own. : (5 votes)
    50 %
    I did something totally different (and will explain in the comments). : (1 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 3
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

    I’m going to give them some guidelines (black pump or peep-toe), but after that it’s up to them. I’m hoping they already own the shoe so that they can save some $$!

    I don’t think I would ever select shoes for bridesmaids, though, and I never have appreciated it when a bride whose party I’ve been in has picked my shoes for me–not everyone can walk well in the same height heel, and nothing will ruin your day more than shoes that hurt! And the shoes that feel good are unique to each person.

    Post # 4
    Member
    365 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I’m giving my girls a color and after that its up to them. I was in a wedding where the bride insisted we all have the same shoe…lets just say my feet felt ugly. I think setting boundries but allowing personal style makes everyone feel good.

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