- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012 - Watch tower lodge, Black hawk state Park Rock Island, IL
My best friend is my Matron of honor, i love this woman and we have been through a lot in our 12 year friendship. but right now shes really starting to get under my skin..let me give you some insite into her; shes LOUD, brash, funny, tell you how it is type woman..shes large and in charge…shes that friend that will tell you how it whether you wanna hear it or not, shes very insecure about her size, body and image but covers her insecurities with humor…..I love her. BUT lately her brashness and honesty to a fault is starting to rub me the wrong way when it comes to details about the wedding…she went on and on the other night that she was out to eat and her waitress started talking about her favorite colors( i have no idea why) anyway the waitress apparently went on to say that her fav colors are purple and teal but they were ugly together..blah blah..my Maid/Matron of Honor told the waitress my wedding colors were plum and teal and apparently they had a nice long converstion about how awful the colors look together. while telling me this i asked her if she really hated my wedding colors and thought they were ugly..she gave me this half smile and arched her eyebrows and said” you said it not me”. she then was complaining about not finding a place for my bridal shower which is supposed to be Sept 1. i pointed out the invites need to be sent really really soon and gave her a few suggestions for locations, she then went on a huge rant about how i need to breathe and let go of control and that i was being a bridezilla. i dont see how making a few suggestions to help is being that way. when i told the girls what i wanted them to wear and asked that they not wear any colored nail polish so as to not clash with the dress colors, and i asked that they wear stud earrings and no necklaces because the dresses have brooches on the straps and i feel it would look gaudy, she started makeing a big deal about it and that i was being a bridezilla and that out of spite she was gonna wear bright “hooker red” nails. its like over the last few months every time i ask for her opinion or i tell her something about the wedding she has a snide remark, rude comment, or hurtful thing to say. she thinks my shoes are hidious..when she knows i spent a lot of money on them and i love them….its just starting to get to me.
sorry for the longish rant