Post # 1
do ppl who have rsvp’d no to our destination wedding still get invited to my shower? id think they would want to give a gift if they cant go to the wedding and i cant imagine excluding them. but i also think it might make me look gift-grabby and greedy? actually having a shower at all sounds greedy to me, since our guests are paying alot to go to the wedding in the first place. but i am pretty positive MIL will insist that i have one!
Post # 3
I think if you invited them to the wedding, whether they choose to come or not, they can definitely be invited to the shower.
Post # 4
@BeeG35: Yup. I’ve been invited to showers when the bride was aware I couldn’t make it to the wedding. It gave me a chance to show my support, so I felt good about it.
Post # 5
Go ahead and invite them.. 🙂
Post # 6
Definitely invite them. I was so excited to go to my friend’s shower and give her a beautiful gift when I couldn’t make it to her destination wedding.