- 6 years ago
- Wedding: March 2012
I feel like it has been one thing after another since we got engaged! My Fiance and I are extremely happy and it hasn’t hurt us at all, but all these things around us is driving me nuts. First, the crazy Future Sister-In-Law. Than the extreme lack of help from both my MOH’s. After that was affording a honeymoon and the list goes on.
Well recently we moved into our dream home. It isn’t too big or too small and I just adore it. We constantly talk about what we will do with it(renovation wise) just to make it a little more perfect. We love the little town it’s in and just everything about it. The other problem is my FI’s credit is a work in progress… this was a rent to own situation so we were very lucky.
Until now, when he calls to say there is a job open within his company 2-3 hours away that could really help his career. I told him to go for it but when I got off the phone I looked at my little house and I don’t know if I can leave. We will help his career but set our home ownership back by a couple years. We also have 2 dogs and I don’t know where we will find to rent with them… and I’m not giving up my babies. And to top it all off we are getting married 3 months from tomorrow!
I don’t know if it can all be done and I really don’t want to leave. I’m perfectly happy with our little life and I love our friends here. He moved me from Baltimore to PA and it took forever for me to be okay here. I’m finally settled and now we might have to move again. I’m just thinking about everything and it makes me upset. I don’t want to crush my FI’s career but how will I be okay? Will it take forever to be okay again in a new place?
Please help bee. I don’t know what to do to make everyone happy :/ And not be stressed!