(Closed) Maybe TMI… just curious though!

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Have you ever tried anal?
    yes : (102 votes)
    53 %
    no : (86 votes)
    44 %
    maybe : (6 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
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    4466 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    My answer is no. Of course we make jokes about it but it is not something I would ever do and I’m pretty sure my husband doesn’t want to either. I know my friend did it on her wedding night. I know, TMI. 

    Post # 4
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    3627 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    No, but if you do try it, please do lots of research beforehand on how not to hurt yourself. A friend of a friend bled for three weeks afterwards. Another friend said it was the most painful experience of her life, and she couldn’t walk or sit without pain for days. Anyway, this is why I don’t want to do it!

    Post # 6
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    1715 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2016

    I have read with proper preparation, it can be very enjoyable. I wouldn’t mind trying it, and seeing how I got along, but I have never done it. 

    Post # 7
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    3627 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @landc2013:  I KNOW! If you do try it, ease into it. Obviously, those girls didn’t!

    Post # 8
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    2833 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I would never do it, but my SO want’s to so bad. I tell him when were 80 years old i’ll give it a try LOL.

    Post # 9
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    4153 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Well I’m going to be embarrassed, but whatever!  Yes I have tried it with an ex.  I did not enjoy it at all but he loved it.  It just felt like I had to poop and I really hate that feeling lol.  

    My husband on the otherhand is not interested in the slightest to try it so that works for me!

    Post # 10
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    381 posts
    Helper bee

    @landc2013:  I second the suggestion to research! My tips would be LOTS of lube, take it really slow, try to relax and you are in charge at all times – if you say stop, you mean stop immediately. He is completely compliant to you, no ifs, not butts (no pun intended!). Some girls hate it, some love it, you won’t know unless you try it.

    Post # 11
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    553 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    We’ve been ‘easing’ into trying it and so far I’m finding it sort of enjoyable…we’ll see where it goes from here…lol

    Post # 13
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    713 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012 - Watch tower lodge, Black hawk state Park Rock Island, IL

    im not shy so ill answer the question with an YES…lol i enjoy it when im in the mood for it..but heres my advise especially for first timers, GO REALLY SLOW! and lots and lots of lube! start with a toy or something smaller than a penis to ease into the idea and help you relax…when the time comes for penetration there are a couple of postions that work better than others, doggy style with you on your knees may be painful because it allows for deeper penetration, try lying on your stomach or on your sides and have him go very slow..stopping every little bit until you relax and get accostumed to the size and the feeling of it then he can continue.. also having a toy for clitoral stimulation at the same time can help you relax and enjoy it more…some women hate it, others love it.

    Post # 14
    Hostess
    18623 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Eh I’ve tried it, it’s not super amazing to me.  Make sure to use lots of lube, and go little by little.  If you force it too much, you could hurt yourself.  For me, it just felt like I was full and the orgasm with it sucked.

    Post # 15
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    1853 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    A close friend said it was nearly the worst case scenario she imagined. Painful, not enjoyable, not remotely worth it. Another former friend liked it but still talked about how much she bled with the wrong guys… *shudder*

    I’m maintaining a strict exit-only policy over here. 

    Post # 16
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    4038 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I’ve done it a handful of times, with DH and with an ex-bf. Not my regular cup of tea, but done right it can be intense and awesome. 

    Use tons and tons of lube, go REALLLLLY slow (until you’re comfortable), stop as soon as it starts to hurt and give your body time to adjust….and make sure your partner can handle a very slow start. I found me being on top was the easiest for us, because I had the most control and could set the pace. 

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