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Me best friend cant come!

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    NicLoop    10/10/10   GA

    So after some MIL drama last night my best friend and my bridesmaid (I have a MOH and my other best friend as a bridesmaid) told me her cousin has the same date as us, and she is in her wedding. I am so upset, I want so badly for her to come but I also love our date, and we really don't want to change.

    I don't know what to do. I love this girl, she would be a HUGE support to me for the wedding and she knows how to keep me relaxed. I guess I just have to accept she can't come.

     
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    Jacqi    February 28, 2009  

    That's really tough. Have you made the reservations and done lots of planning for Oct 10?

    Are you going to pick another friend to be a BM or just have your MOH?

     
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    bvig    September 2009   wedding in NJ

    Can you talk to her about being a big support to you in the days and months leading up to the wedding?  Honestly on the actual wedding day you'll be so surrounded by lots of people, it's a big loss but maybe you can even arrange phone conversations the morning of so she can still be there in spirit.

     
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    cinemaparadiso    July 16, 2015  

    Wow... that sucks! I'm so sorry, I'm sure she'll be there in spirit!

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    The really sucks that she can't come.  My best friend wasn't able to come to my wedding either and I ended up having my SIL as my only bridesmaid.  Just remember that she still is your best friend even though she can't be there.

     
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    NicLoop    10/10/10   GA

    No, we havent made any payments on anything for this date, but my FI and I really want 10/10/10. He picked it, he is really proud of that, and its on a Sunday so we can get a few discounts that way. If she doesn't come I will just have my MOH. I have my two best friends, and then all of my other friends are kinda equal you know.

     
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    spaniel    March 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    Oh no, I'm so sorry! That's so disappointing. :(

     

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