Post # 1
So after some Mother-In-Law drama last night my best friend and my bridesmaid (I have a Maid/Matron of Honor and my other best friend as a bridesmaid) told me her cousin has the same date as us, and she is in her wedding. I am so upset, I want so badly for her to come but I also love our date, and we really don’t want to change.
I don’t know what to do. I love this girl, she would be a HUGE support to me for the wedding and she knows how to keep me relaxed. I guess I just have to accept she can’t come.
Post # 3
That’s really tough. Have you made the reservations and done lots of planning for Oct 10?
Are you going to pick another friend to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man or just have your MOH?
Post # 4
Can you talk to her about being a big support to you in the days and months leading up to the wedding? Honestly on the actual wedding day you’ll be so surrounded by lots of people, it’s a big loss but maybe you can even arrange phone conversations the morning of so she can still be there in spirit.
Post # 5
Wow… that sucks! I’m so sorry, I’m sure she’ll be there in spirit!
Post # 6
The really sucks that she can’t come. My best friend wasn’t able to come to my wedding either and I ended up having my SIL as my only bridesmaid. Just remember that she still is your best friend even though she can’t be there.
Post # 7
No, we havent made any payments on anything for this date, but my Fiance and I really want 10/10/10. He picked it, he is really proud of that, and its on a Sunday so we can get a few discounts that way. If she doesn’t come I will just have my Maid/Matron of Honor. I have my two best friends, and then all of my other friends are kinda equal you know.
Post # 8
- Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch
Oh no, I’m so sorry! That’s so disappointing. 🙁