- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2013
2013 started off on a bad note…my elder brother cut off ties with my sister n i cos of his wife.My brother invited us to spend new year with him .his wife n her family….we do not like her or her family and she does not like us either. my sister and i stood away from them during the fireworks show and my brother came over and called us stupid.(he always belittles us) we walked away.
the next day he sent rude messages to my sister n they fought…that is okay…cos we siblings fight but always forgive one another….but my sis in law interfered and sent a rude message to my sister.and then it started,the fight between my sister n sis in law. it got worse today when my brother cut off ties with us.
the thing is,my sis in law has done bad ,mean things to us but we always kept quiet bout it cos we love our brother ,when we finally told him,he juz brushed it away.tht hurt.
we grew up under different circumstances…our mother is bipolar.she had depression and was in her own world most of the time.we fended for ourselves mostly n he literally brought us up.(he looked after us) n now all tht is forgotten cos of his wife.we grew up poor,she is from a rich family…so she has looked down on us since the day they started dating but we are all highly educated compared to her and her siblings.and yet she belittles us n bully us.(cos my brother does not stop her)
what can i do?