- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
My FH has chosen his brother to be his best man. I’ve met his brother before, and he is lovely. He’s also going to ask two good friends who are work colleagues to be his ushers, but I have met neither one of them before. We’re going to ask them to be the ushers when we have our engagement party in 2 months, but I kind of feel like I’d like to meet them beforehand. I’m not saying I don’t want them to be our ushers – I’m sure they’re both brilliant – but I just think it would make more sense for me to meet them before they turn up to a big family gathering and we ask them to be ushers. I think it would feel strange introducing my family to these two people as our ushers when I’ll have only just met them myself. My FH says it’ll be fine, but I feel kinda awkward about the situation. Am I just being silly, or am I justified for wanting to meet them first?