Post # 1
Hello lovely bees –
We will be meeting with our officiant tomorrow afternoon. We are so crazy excited. But I havr no idea what yo expect.
What did you ask your officiant when you met with them? We are not very religious so we really dont want anything super religious. What sort of questions did your odficiant ask you?
Post # 2
I would ask what requirements there will be for them to be the officiant – is there some sort of couples counseling type thing that you will need to do to be married by them? What is included in the ceremony – religious verses? Readings, etc? What sort of wording will be used – do you want the word ‘obey’ in your vows, do you want personal vows, etc?
I would ask to see a copy of ceremony scripts they’ve performed before, and go through it word by word, and make sure you know what they require/prefer and make sure they know what you require/prefer.