(Closed) Meltdown aftermath…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

I had replied to your last post to say it sounds like he was being kind of stubborn. so maybe he realized that on his own! I’m so glad things worked out for you.

I had a non-wedding related meltdown the other night. I wanted to quit my job w/o having another one lined up — because I was soooo stressed out that I was worried this job is killing me. so, he kept telling me I should try to get a new job first, and  I thought he was going to put his foot down. I had a major crying jag over it sunday night and spilled my guts to him. it turns out he just thought he was giving me good advice, and oh my goodness, of course he would support me quitting my job if I’m really that stressed out. I think I freaked him out quite a bit!  now he has been nothing but super sweet to me. I’m super embarrased about my meltdown, and that is NOT the way I was planning on handling it,  but it sure did get results. yay!

Post # 4
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178 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Glad it’s working out for you and you are in a better place.

Yes, I’ve had the meltdowns lately as well. They were not pretty but SO was so sweet and loving. He kept reminding me how far we have come and how he wants to be with me forever. Some men really are angels underneath!

Post # 5
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1013 posts
Bumble bee

I actually think its ok to have a lil break down.  If you hold it all in how can they know your struggling with waiting?  Its not to make them feel bad, but more so they know its important enough for you to worry about. 

 

 

Post # 8
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868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

My husband is incredibly patient with me and really, really sweet.  He never loses his temper with me but always listens to my crap; including when I am melting down!  He is much better at maintaining his composure than I am!

I hope things work out for you!

Post # 9
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7609 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I’m glad you’re in a better place these days!  I don’t have any personal stories of my own to add, but will keep my eye out for more updates from you. 🙂

Post # 10
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3220 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I knew I found the one when he could handle all of my worrying and stressing! 

one of my favorite quotes is “love me when I least deserve it, because that is when I really need it.”

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