(Closed) Mods – can you kindly delete pls?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2154 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I don’t really understand why you’re so anxious. He’s ordered a ring, so he’s pretty much definitely going to propose. Breathe, go to a movie, take a friend for coffee. It will be okay!

Post # 4
5118 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

**hugs** I’m sorry, I remember how much waiting was like torture at times (we dated for over 6.5 years before getting engaged).

Just try to do something nice for yourself this weekend, and know that while it may not be here yet, it’s on it’s way, he’s taken those big steps, and now you’re in the ‘best’ part of waiting (if there is one). The ring will get here, he’ll plan his big surprise (and really, truly, try to let him have that moment, as tough as it is to not be anxious). Mr.ND really loved proposing, because by that time I knew he had the ring and knew that he was planning, so I just tried to drop it. It’ll suck, but pamper yourself this weekend, have a girls’ night, something fun, and just let things progress as they will. They go a lot faster if you’re not thinking about it ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
9824 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Dude, I feel frenzied just reading this. The math, the angst, the counting of the days…

Calm down. Seriously. The ring will be on your hand in no time. Stop obsessing and enjoy the pre-engagement time, you’re only making yourself miserable. Find a hobby, read a book, take a cooking class and stop doing long division over how much better it would have been to order platinum. What’s done is done.

Post # 6
3461 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Hmm, I didn’t read the original post before you edited it, but I can’t say people seemed particularly harsh here…

Post # 7
10288 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Unless someone edited their original comment, I don’t really think anyone was harsh. I would have said the exact same things the PP’s said.

It’ll be okay. The ring will be on your finger in no time.

Post # 8
1941 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

It’s a bummer that you’ve edited your own comment so others can’t share w/ you. However, it really doesn’t seem like anyone has been harsh at all.

Post # 9
3758 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Were you hoping people would freak out with you or something? I didn’t see your original post so I don’t really understand… to me, the PPs sound like they are trying to reassure you that it will be okay.

Post # 10
108 posts
Blushing bee

i’m sorry you didn’t get the support you needed. i feel like the boards lately have been a bit more harsh… perhaps because “wedding season” is upon us and we are all a little more stressed due to seeing others get engaged and married more and more lately. i too want one of my posts deleted.

Post # 11
3142 posts
Sugar bee

aw thats so sad! I used to pm with this Bee because she is from my hometown.  I sent her a message asking if he popped the question yet and never heard back.  I guess this is why.

Shes no longer a member.

Soooo sad ๐Ÿ™

Post # 12
2523 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@Oneeleven: That’s sad she felt that way. ๐Ÿ™

Post # 13
2607 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

OH crud… we need more Canadian girls!  ๐Ÿ™‚

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