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I am looking for ideas or comments. My grandfather passed away a few years ago and since my dad wasn't around growing up he was in my eyes my father and we were extremely close. I am having my DJ do a photo montage during the daddy daughter dance and am going to most likely have my grandmother dance with me. However, I would like to do a nice memorial candle that is lite in his honor. I am not sure whether to have a memorial candle during the ceremony have my grandmother light the taper while our mothers are lighting theirs and then me light the memorial. Or to possibly have 2 tapers and me and my grandmother light the memorial before we start dancing during the daddy daughter dance when the DJ starts the photo montage? Does anyone have any suggestions? Also where I could possibly get a descent priced memorial candle or template to make my own? Appreciate any help!!