- 5 years ago
- Wedding: January 2013
Our wedding comes just a few weeks before the first anniversary of my grandpas passing. I would love to do a memory table to honor him…I think my mom and grandma would really appreciate it. He even made a beautiful candle holder that I would like to use for the table. But all but one of my guys grandparents have passed as well. Two of them he never knew, and wasent close to the other. His parents aren’t the best at keeping pictures plus I think there is a lot of bitterness in both families reguarding these grandparents. I don’t want to be rude and just have my grandpa, but i dont want to step on toes by asking. So I asked my guy what he would like, to which he replied “i never really even knew them.” But i would hate to find out his parent would have liked them on the table despite the bitterness. Do you think I should honor my grandpa in my own private way ( thinking bouquet charm) and just make a general memory table with just the candle holder and no pictures with a poem or something like a sign that says….in honor of those watching from heaven? Kinda confused.