(Closed) Men dream of their weddings too!

posted 8 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Wow, you are such a sweet, sweet bride to have a Star Wars themed wedding! My boyfriend LOVES Star Trek, but I would have to put my foot down if he tried to include it in our wedding!  Of course, he hates weddings so he doesn’t care one way or the other about what ours looks like!

Post # 5
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Blushing bee

When a friend of mine got engaged, her FH told her about his dream wedding.

He wanted it to be in an artist’s loft/gallery and have local musicians playing non-traditional stuff.  He wanted fusion style food.

His FW set him straight, quick!

They had the wedding back east where her family was.  A very traditional and formal Catholic Mass wedding.  The governor of the state came to wedding because he and his wife were friends of her parents.

After the wedding and HUGE reception, my friend’s DH told me he was shocked at how many details his then FW had planned before he even met her.

I informed him that fantasizing and planning our weddings is why girls learn to walk – to practice walking down the aisle.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

my fi’s only dream for our wedding was to be able to share it with all our friends and family. too bad my crazy anxiety isn’t allowing that to happen! but on the plus side, you did just make me a little happier that his dream was not the same as your fi, something i could make true but oh lord, really wouldn’t want to. he’s lucky to have you!

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

My FI did not have a dream wedding per se thank goodness but I did ask him what was important to him and what he wanted to be involved in decision making wise and I think it has been really good for us – because I knew the things I could go wild on and what things I knew I might need to compromise on!!!!

So far the only real thing he has needed to be involved in other than the major stuff like budget and guest list was locations!!!!!

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

haha wildside my future hubby asked if we could ask the mat’d to dress as darth!!

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

zelda or nightare before christmas theme…lol…yeah so not happening w/ my parents. I wouldn’t have cared…I really never dreamed of my wedding either so I have been kind of going with the flow..and making things up as I see what I like.

 

but, I’m doing a zelda themed groom cake for him..and we’re dressing up as link and the princess for halloween. I could have so gone for getting married on Halloween but I’m pretty sure my mom would have freaked cuz she is anti-halloween so that crossed our nightmare before christmas.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

lol, my FI’s only request i that we have ONE good wedding picture to frame.  seriously, that’s all he has requested…

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

you could definitely have them do a sword salute with the light sabers!!! and then do a darth vader groom’s cake and have you as princess lai and luke as the cake toppers and perhaps play the theme song as you’re walking down the aisle? i definitely think there’s a tasteful way to bring it in without going totally over the top.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

i saw another girl with subtle star wars references in her wedding; the cake table had decorated letters that said “I love you.” and “I know” spelled out =)  

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