Post # 1
So I was perusing the net and ran across an article about men faking it. Who knew that was a thing that happened! I immediately asked my SO and after his shock and laughter subsided he too asked if that was even possible. His logic was couldn’t I tell the difference.
Thing is I am not sure I could. I don’t know what to do with myself at the moment and I am BAFFLED. Is this possible? Is there a way to tell?
Perhaps I am cray cray for even reading this article. Lord knows I have more important things to be doing with my time.
Post # 3
FI has faked finishing a few times because he thinks I’m done, or that it’s starting to chafe me. He usually waits until we start cuddling to tell me, the jerk. I usually scold him and smack him. He’s starting to get the idea that if I need him to stop I will tell him.
Post # 4
If he’s wearing a condom – easy! He just goes and cleans up alone, and you assume he took care of the evidence.
No condom… then I would definitely tell if he finished or not.
ETA: I have never faked with my FI, and neither has he. We have both had times when we couldn’t “get there” and we feel free to say so and let things end. It’s no big deal, and we’re secure enough with each other to do that.
Post # 5
My DH had faked it once. He said it was just an “awkward” situation he wanted to get out of. It was the first time he and the girl were intimate and they broke up shortly after that.
Post # 6
@subtlebee: Well…yeah I guess they do. When I first saw the title of this post I though maybe it was about guys faking it when they were bottoming during anal sex. There you go, I guess.
Post # 7
@LovelyLaura: “an awkward situation he wanted to get out of”
That is hilarious! I’m going to start using that at every childbirth I go to from now on.
Post # 8
The question I have is what would want to man a fake it??? Sex is initimacy and I cant imagine my FI faking it, it is meant for both partners to enjoy.
Post # 9
I am sure if he is wearing a condom he could. My husband and I don’t use condoms so he can’t. haha But he always finishes. Even if I am done I will let him finish or help him finish in another way.
But I do think it is possible if they wear a condom for sure.
Post # 10
TMI warning… Even with a condom on, after his orgasm DH goes, um, softer pretty quickly. So I think I could tell, unless he got out fast. I’m pretty sure he never has faked, but it’s one of those things I don’t think I’d ask.
Post # 11
I just asked my SO if he thinks this is possible, because it completely confuses me? He said, “Yes. But it’s really hard. And you need to be wearing a condom.” lolwut.
I can’t figure out why a guy would want to fake it.
Post # 12
I’m with yall on it might be possible. I assume their reasons are the same a girl would use. Though I always just assumed if the got it up then they had to get off. I suppose now thats pretty silly
Post # 13
@BridieBea: huh? How could they fake it in that situation?
Post # 14
@Tralalaubee: I can’t figure out why a guy would want to fake it.
For the same reason a woman would.
Post # 15
@mstellah: Some of the time, orgasm and ejaculation do not always go hand in hand. Especially when it comes to orgasm from prostate stimulation.
Post # 16
With a condom it’s easy… without, it depends on the girl and how much attention she’s paying. I think most guys could fool most girls on a one night stand, but once you’ve been together for awhile I don’t think so.