(Closed) Men Fake Orgasms?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Can Men Fake it?
    Yes : (64 votes)
    47 %
    No : (40 votes)
    30 %
    Depends (explain) : (15 votes)
    11 %
    I don't even like the thought of this : (16 votes)
    12 %
  • Post # 3
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    3553 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    FI has faked finishing a few times because he thinks I’m done, or that it’s starting to chafe me. He usually waits until we start cuddling to tell me, the jerk. I usually scold him and smack him. He’s starting to get the idea that if I need him to stop I will tell him.

    Post # 4
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    4049 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    If he’s wearing a condom – easy! He just goes and cleans up alone, and you assume he took care of the evidence.

    No condom… then I would definitely tell if he finished or not.

    ETA: I have never faked with my FI, and neither has he. We have both had times when we couldn’t “get there” and we feel free to say so and let things end. It’s no big deal, and we’re secure enough with each other to do that.

    Post # 5
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    1306 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    My DH had faked it once. He said it was just an “awkward” situation he wanted to get out of. It was the first time he and the girl were intimate and they broke up shortly after that.

    Post # 6
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    847 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2015

    @subtlebee:  Well…yeah I guess they do. When I first saw the title of this post I though maybe it was about guys faking it when they were bottoming  during anal sex. There you go, I guess. 

    Post # 8
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    1465 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    The question I have is what would want to man a fake it??? Sex is initimacy and I cant imagine my FI faking it, it is meant for both partners to enjoy.

    Post # 9
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    11397 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I am sure if he is wearing a condom he could. My husband and I don’t use condoms so he can’t. haha But he always finishes. Even if I am done I will let him finish or help him finish in another way.

    But I do think it is possible if they wear a condom for sure.

    Post # 10
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    7796 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    TMI warning… Even with a condom on, after his orgasm DH goes, um, softer pretty quickly. So I think I could tell, unless he got out fast. I’m pretty sure he never has faked, but it’s one of those things I don’t think I’d ask.

    Post # 11
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    234 posts
    Helper bee

    I just asked my SO if he thinks this is possible, because it completely confuses me? He said, “Yes. But it’s really hard. And you need to be wearing a condom.” lolwut.

    I can’t figure out why a guy would want to fake it.

    Post # 13
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    948 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    @BridieBea:  huh? How could they fake it in that situation?

    Post # 14
    Member
    508 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    @Tralalaubee:  I can’t figure out why a guy would want to fake it.

    For the same reason a woman would.

    Post # 15
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    508 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    @mstellah:  Some of the time, orgasm and ejaculation do not always go hand in hand.  Especially when it comes to orgasm from prostate stimulation.

    Post # 16
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    4660 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    With a condom it’s easy… without, it depends on the girl and how much attention she’s paying. I think most guys could fool most girls on a one night stand, but once you’ve been together for awhile I don’t think so.

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