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posted 1 year ago in Rings
  • poll: What kind of band did your FI get?
    Platinum : (9 votes)
    9 %
    Gold : (33 votes)
    34 %
    Tungsten : (35 votes)
    36 %
    Titanium : (8 votes)
    8 %
    Other : (8 votes)
    8 %
    Palladium : (4 votes)
    4 %
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    PinkMagnolia    November 2011  

    What did you and FI go with for HIS wedding band?

    FI is extremely active and I was looking for something durable.

    What do you all know about titanium? How has it held up if you chose that? He loves the traditional shiny rings and I'm worried about him scratching the hell out of them. I was just about sold on Tungsten and then my friend’s husband shattered his wedding band, but I love how they look permanently shiny and perfect.

     
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    kala_way    May 28, 2011   Manhattan Beach, CA

    We went with Titanium. I think it's beautiful. He hasn't worn it yet, but I've heard they hold up really well. Not as likely to scratch or bend as gold or silver but less heavy and expensive than pretty much everything else. My dad has a tungsten ring and loves it. I've heard they can shatter but I don't think it's a very common thing.

     
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    Soon2beeMrsM    October 2010   NY

    We went with tungsten carbide. FI has a motorcycle, corvette and lots of other things he works on and is active so he wanted something durable, scratch resistent, easy to clean and this works out well. He has been wearing it for 6 months and gets oil/grease on it and bangs it around working on engines and he hasn't had any problems. It always comes clean and looks brand new. We got him this one, the website is great too btw. Men's Bands :  wedding VELLI Tungsten Carbide Concave Wedding Band Ring P103795http://www.titaniumkay.com/VELLI-Tungsten-Carbide-Concave-Wedding-Band-Ring-P103795.html

     
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    PinkMagnolia    November 2011  

    I'm looking at titanium now but I hear that they do scratch a lot? I love how tungsten never scratches.

     
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    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    We went with tungsten for a few reasons, but it mostly came down to cost and style. If cost was no object we probably would've done a platinum band with diamonds because my DH doesn't like the super plain bands that look like every other ring. But-- diamonds and platinum were not in the budget. We looked at gold rings but there are really not very many styles available that he liked. Then we looked into tungsten because he liked how it stays super shiny always, and they also had more designs. I love the one he picked, its classic while still being just a little bit different: 

    Men's Bands :  wedding The Ring Omg

     
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    Miss Scarlet    May 14, 2011  

    We went with platinum. We wanted ours to be the same metal, even if different in design. He also liked that it was reminiscent of his dad's in that way.

     
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    PinkMagnolia    November 2011  

    Has anyone had cobalt chrome? It seems to be like tungsten except it doesn't shatter.

     
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    Elarissa    June 18, 2011   Toronto

    Mine went the Toungsten and he loves it. I haven't heard about them shattering before though :S

     
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    carrieknitscake    October 10, 2009   Chicago, IL

    My husband wears a palladium ring. He liked the weight of it compared to platinum and even white gold. It's also brushed. Some of the brushing has worn away from a year and a half. So eventually, we'll have it rebrushed. He's a computer web developer. Having a light ring helps with him being at the computer all day.

    Men's Bands :  wedding Manring

     
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    Tessa931    October 2, 2011  

    We went for brushed palladium because platinum would have cost a fortune for his ring size.

     
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    MidnightSun    December 31, 2017  

    He wants a Titanium band with a yellow gold inlay. If it gets too scratched up you could always replace it since they're so inexpensive, if you're comfortable with that. :)  

     
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    tracieszcz    July 23, 2011   Oregon

    Well the first ring we bought was titanium, but it was ordered in the wrong size and Jay jewelry would not refund us, soooo I said eff them and eff titanium. Finger sizes can change all the time, so we decided to go with white gold, so that we can get it resized if we need too.

     
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    MaiFuture    October 1, 2011   Texas

    White Tungsten

    Men's Bands :  wedding IMG 3619

    He really wanted something that wouldn't scratch and he liked the classic look. 

     
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    SuperBrook    5/7/2011   Kansas

    We went with Cobalt.  FI's not sure if he'll wear his ring on a daily basis, but if he does he needs something that he can cut off on his own.  Cobalt and White Gold fit that bill.  Downside is that Cobalt couldn't be put back together like white gold.  In the unlikely event he has to cut it off, I think we'll just be glad he still has a finger to put a new ring on.  The white gold was three times the price of the Cobalt and we just couldn't justify spending that much more on something he might wear once or twice a week.

     
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    sit1010    June 18, 2011   Living in Raleigh, NC, Getting Married in Rochester, NY

    We went with 10K gold but we also have an offer for free Tungsten bands so we will have both. Hopefully he'll wear the Tungsten to work every day so that his other band doesn't get scratched up, but we did get 10K (rather than 14K or 18K) since it is harder in case he did decide to wear that on a regular basis.

    No the Tungsten cannot be resized but basically no matter where you get your ring you'll get a jewelry service plan and it will include ordering a new ring if it ever needs to be resized. I know that we have that plan included with the free rings (thank you bridal show!) and it was also included at Zales if we were to buy the Tungsten from there. The drawback for him for the Tungsten is that it is VERY heavy.

     
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    organizedbride11    November 11, 2011   Illinois

    We went with the tungston.

     
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    kala_way    May 28, 2011   Manhattan Beach, CA

    @PinkMagnolia: Titanium is actually very scratch resistant. More so than gold, silver, or platinum. You're right that Tungsten is even more scratch resistant, but unless you're super tough on your rings/hands it shouldn't be an issue.

    And like a pp said, one of the things I prefer about titanium is that it's so much lighter than tungsten. Can hardly feel it on your hand as opposed to tungsten which is super heavy. Still gorgeous though! :)

     
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    theoddbride    June 7, 2014   New York City

    He hasn't purchased it yet but we went with white gold. We were intersted in tungsten or cobalt but were concerned because we have heard that they are not resizable?

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    I actually made DH's out of sterling silver.  He gets complements on it CONSTANTLY (thank you very much :) and he says that everyone thinks it is gold.  I will try to find a picture or take one to post it.

     
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    bells    June 26, 2011  

    Originally I thought we would get matching rings and he would get white gold like me but he chose tungsten which has a black stripe in the center

     
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    mittens111211    November 2011   Portland, Oregon

    I went with Cobalt. He had a tungsten ring previously, so I wanted to stay away from that material, and he didn't really like any of the other options, so Cobalt it is.

    Men's Bands :  wedding PZALE1 9010811t240.jpg

     
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    linguo42    February 27, 2011   Vancouver, B.C.

    DH's is hammered platinum. So it won't show dings or scratches like a smooth ring would, and we like that our rings are the same metal.

     
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    babylou    October 15, 2011  

    We went with cobalt, as well.

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    DH's wedding band is white gold.  He looks at some of the other materials, but he prefered the look and feel of white gold.

     
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    thewheelsonthebus    June 25, 2011  

    We're ordering a Titanium for him.  After trying a bunch on in stores, he liked that metal the best and we were both happy with the price tag :)

     
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    Ms. Pink Scrubs    March 24, 2013   Chicago, IL / Orlando, FL wedding
     
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    KatNewby    July 15, 2014   Michigan (For Now)

    @MaiFuture:   suppperrrr late reply, but I was wondering where you got your husbands band (or brand of) and what mm width it is.

     
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    calypso522    May 19, 2012   Virginia

    We got Titanium for now, but hopefully we can upgrade his to white gold in a few years!

     
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    deathbydesign    February 18, 2012   Lives in Ontario, married in Quebec

    My DH's band is 18k yellow gold. He really likes to save money, so he was tempted to get a ring made of a less expensive metal, but he loves the buttery color of gold too much! His ring was very expensive but he loves it!

    Men's Bands :  wedding Joshsband2

    Men's Bands :  wedding IMG 1210

     
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    Soon2bMrsGski    February 25, 2013  

    Men's Bands :  wedding 20110811 11425

    we are getting this ring most likely for my SO. he is an architect and he loves "different" and modern and if you know any architect this kind of fits them perfectly. I actually love it!

     
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    les105    May 6, 2012  

    Tungsten carbide. He's an engineer and really hard on his hands, so he wasn't interested in anything less durable. He also loved the price (we got it for $30) :)

     

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