- 6 years ago
- Wedding: January 2012
Long story short, we haven’t heard from our best man since a month ago when he gave me his address for an invitation, then told me it would change soon. It changed before we sent out invitations, so I tried to get in touch with him to get his new address and didn’t hear back. Forward to three weeks later, the RSVP date is in 2 weeks, and he still hasn’t gotten an invitation. We tried to get in touch with him about tuxes a few weeks ago. Now the tux orders are due in 2 weeks, and we don’t even know if he knows about it.
I’m hoping he doesn’t back out. His wife is moving to Texas (nothing bad, she just got an internship there and will be there for a few months. They’re really happy about it.), and I feel like getting ready for that may be keeping them too busy? If that’s the case, that’s fine, but we’d like to know so we can find another groomsman or something.
The bridal party is already uneven. We don’t have a whole lot of very close friends, so I have 3 bridesmaids, and my fiance has 2 groomsmen. If he quits, I would be so sad to see my fiance with only one person by his side. :'(
Is a month too little time to consider him MIA? What do I do if he misses the tux deadline but comes back?