(Closed) MIL and SFIL Renewed their vows at my wedding and hid it from us

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@ignatiangal:  ………..I think its weird that they renewed their vows at your wedding. They probably realized that and figured it would annoy you that they were A) trying to steal your thunder B) piggybacking or C) Not focusing enough on the main event (your wedding). I’m a little surprised you didn’t have any of those reactions (which would have been mine).

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee

Wow. I would have def asked if I were them. Hiding it all this time, telling SO not to tell you, and taking the leftover cake was pretty crappy.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Maybe the secrecy was due to her not wanting to upset you, or make you feel like she was stealing some thunder from you on your wedding day?

Why would you be upset with her taking leftover cake home? Unless you were doing the top tier freezing thing and she took that, I don’t understand why that’s a bad thing.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@ignatiangal:  Thats really weird. I would have told the venue to ignore her and continue serving it.

Post # 10
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Wow she’s a classy lady ‘not! Thats pretty low of her and cheap for goodness sakes 

Post # 11
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Sugar bee

Wow at the stop serving cake bit…

Post # 12
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Bumble bee

Wow, what a B! I would just try to think of it as finally having evidence of what a selfish lady she is. That’s so terrible OP, I would not be nearly as classy about the cake or the vow renewal as you’re being!

Post # 13
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I don’t want to stir up trouble, but what bothers me most is DH didn’t tell you after his mom told him. Make it clear to DH that there should be no secrets between the two of you, and his loyalty to you is more important that his loyalty to her.

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