- 3 years ago
- Wedding: November 2014
I will try to keep this short and sweet.
I am caught in the middle of a fight with my future MIL and SIL…
So a brief overview of the story;
My future SIL is dating my FI little brother, they have a toddler together and are the kind of couple that are very much one extreme to the other – lovey and romantic to just about to separate the next moment.
So my MIL is sick of the drama, so they are now constantly fighting. MIL thinks my SIL is cheating, stealing money and lying ect… off her baby boy.
So we have all decided to stay out of it, no one wants that kind of toxic drama in their lives. The more they push and pull at FI little brother the more he wants nothing to do with them.
The only time I have put in my 2cents was when MIL was saying she is going to be a b*tch this year and take no crap. I said sure take no crap but I don’t think its healthy to put that kind of negative energy into the world – your going to get it back X3 – Karma is a b*tch.
A few nights ago I get this phone call from MIL and she is going off at me that I am talking behind her back and she cant trust me… I am like WHAT?
SIL had been spewing all these half truths and lies, saying I said this and that…
I had no idea what to say, she wanted me to argue with her. But I knew she wouldn’t listen, she wanted to start a fight and prove me wrong and that she is the victim.
I could even hear SIL yelling in the back ground calling her names and everything… they where in the middle of an explosive fight!
So I am in tears, she hangs up on me mostly because I was like I don’t know what you want me to say or want.
So fast forward to today where she sends me a text asking if we are still going to a cake testing appointment…
I have no idea what to say, to call? or stick to text?
I would love an opportunity to talk and sort out this mess I got thrown into. But personally I think its too soon, more so seeing as SIL & BIL live with MIL and are arguing every day or just ignoring each other.
I worry that with the whole mess being so raw and fresh she will try and start something.
MIL is very stubborn, and she really likes being right and it doesn’t matter if is a misunderstanding or what ever – she will still correct you and pretty much repeat what you just said but in a way she is right, your wrong ect…
I hate how this post is coming out, I am trying to paint a picture of her but I feel like its coming out a bit more backstabby… (not my aim)
I admit she is one scary woman, I grew up with violence (my biological dad), and she is the type of woman that will throw dishes, punch fridges ect.. in a temper tantrum.
I am terrified of her.
How do I express myself in a way that is not going to cause more drama?
I don’t want to go to the cake shop appointment with her, and I don’t have a clue how to say it or text it.
Please and Thankyou for any help, tips, advice.