Post # 1
ya so my fiance mother is preganant with god knows whos child( this is from her mouth) she is 40 and acts like a 16 year girl. she parties like crazy hooks up with random men over myspace and has sex well now she is pregannt and doesnt know who the baby daddy is but yet she has told 3 different guys there the father??? i come from a pretty proper family and this is just ridiculous. well she has not overscene any of our wedding plans and everything is about her and she wants my fiance to go to all the doctors appoints( welive 5 hours away) and she is hurt that my faince is not emotionaly supportive of her right now( umm last time i checked he is not the father nor is this his full siblingand he is just very disappointed in his mother and slightly embarrased) so now it has become a tug of war between me and his mother and i REFUSE to loose!!!!
Post # 3
ackward! I’m assuming if she is 40 then she had your FI @ a young age? Maybe she is re-living her lost youth since she had to grow up fast by raising your FI?
Post # 4
Whoa! That is a whole big mess.
I am assuming she was pretty young when she had your fiance? I have young parents and being the oldest child I feel like they rely on me a lot for emotional support in situations where maybe it is not appropriate for a parent/child relationship.
Try to be supportive of your FI and FMIL as much as you can. She is his mother, she is not going away, and she is probably feeling very alone right now. Remember that she will also be your family soon too. You can give her tough love when appropriate, but try to support her as much as you can despite disagreeing with her choices.
Post # 5
yes she has my fiance josh at 18 and thats what my mom says. she is just so embarssing though shes a larger women and insisting on wearing a very tight clingy bright red dress. it is practically see through since its so tight on her and the neckline drops down to her navel area!!! i feel its 1 inappropriate for anyone to wear this and 2 she is preganant, and 3 she is 40 years old. i am all about self confidence but she crosses the line. also we are getting married in las vegas new mexico and it is a very small town . i am from santa fe nm and my fiance is from las vegas nm and this town talks alot a word spreads and i just dont want her to be the talk of my wedding