MIL & Sister-in-Law going on our honeymoon?

posted 2 years ago in Honeymoons
Post # 2
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Busy bee

??? If they won’t be there the same time as you, they aren’t actually going on your honeymoon. Confused.

Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

GreenBayBee:  good question. Advice depends on the answer.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I would make your husband say something. That wouldn’t fly with me. I would probably skip disney and go somewhere else rather than run the risk of  spending your honeymoon with them. 

 

Edit: wait if they won’t be there the same time as you, why does it matter?

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 4 months ago by  theshannondee.
Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Why does it matter if it wont be at the same time as you?

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

GreenBayBee:  Agree. They won’t be there WITH you, right? If not, who cares. A honeymoon is for you and your husband, anyway. Who cares if other people go on vacation there, too. Doesn’t take anything away from your experience there. It’s not like they asked your husband to come with. I wouldn’t say anything if I were you. 

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee

They won’t be there when you’re on your honeymoon, so I don’t think there’s a problem. 

I can see why you would be a little annoyed with the sister if she has done things like this before, but I don’t think anything needs to addressed with her or your MIL. 

Ignoring this whole thing is probably the best course of action. Talking about it with them, or getting your husband to talk to them about it, will likely cause completely unnecessary trouble. There’s just no need for it.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 1975

kwahom03:  I would just let this one fall by the waste side. Don’t put any effort or emotion into commenting or bringing up their behavior. They’re excitement for their little Spring Break trip will fizzle out eventually.

Also… Maybe you do see it as an attack on your honeymoon because you don’t typically like the behavior of your SIL. It’s not like they’re going to DW the same time as you and DH.  Just pay no mind, not worth thinking about.

Post # 10
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

If they are not going at the same time as you, they are not going on your honeymoon. They have been to Disneyworld twice before. They obviously like it and SIL wants to go again.

Is there any possibility you are just looking for drama? It seems you are not a fan of the SIL.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

If you aren’t going at the same time, what is the problem. Sorry, but a lot of people, especially teenagers, like amusement parks, including disneyworld, and it’s not a stretch that they would want to there at some point too.  I feel like the majority of people in the USA have gone to a Disney theme park at one point.  

If you said you were going to Bora Bora, at a specific resort, for example, that would be a little weird but Disneyworld? 

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

Not the same time? I don’t see the drama. A honeymoon is basically a private thing. Why do you need other people to even know you’re going, much less be excited for you or keep it off limits? I don’t see how the MIL and SIL are making it about themselves at all. 

Post # 14
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

kwahom03:  To tag people just click on reply at the end of their post. You can tag as many people as you like in one response.

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