(Closed) mini vent

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
384 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2004

in this situation i completly agree with you, but that date will have sentimental value to you either way. Maybe talk to you FH about it again and explain why its so important and your fears for your mothers health

Post # 4
581 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I agree with you.  and any friend that doesn’t understand your reasoning is not a friend

Post # 7
955 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I feel that your mother being at your wedding is way more important than the perceived politeness of when to have your wedding in relation to your friends. If I were you I’d move up the wedding. You don’t want to harbor such intense feelings of regret and bitterness if something should happen before your big day. The feelings won’t go away, they’ll just get worse (if something should happen). Hugs!! Wishing you the best!!

Post # 8
3303 posts
Sugar bee

I am so sorry. I firmly believe dates should be the decision of the couple. You get a day. And since this is his friend, he should be more understand.

Now if it werea family and too much traveling back and forth, lack of cash flow, ect. then I could understand but they are only friends. That shouldn’t conflict with the guests too much. Your fiancé is lucky you are taking it in stride, I wouldn’t be ok with it.

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