(Closed) Mini Vent – my SIL just made fun of the fact I am taller than my FI

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

She was probably just trying to be funny, but that is annoying.

Don’t let her immaturity get you down!

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

that’s super mean. try not to let it bother you too much… i think you guys look great together!

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper

you guys look happy, and that is the most important thing. I am like 3 inches taller than my FI, who cares! Just means.. there is something a little EXTRA special about them that they can snag a model 😉

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Why did you laugh?  Tell her how you feel.  If she thinks that you think it is funny – this could be an ongoing joke for her.  

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think it’s a lovely picture!

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

How rude! You guys are a very cute couple Laughing

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

You guys look lovely and happy and that’s what its all about.

Post # 12
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

The one little comment about wearing heals, was probably not the issue I’m assuming. Lots of people will make little comments about things, not that it’s right but they do. I’m sure it was the continuing of it right? DH is a big guy and people make comments all the time. The first comment doesn’t bother me but if they carry on it’s just mean spirited. I tell them to back off. You should do the same.

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@unixfairy: Aw I’m sorry! That wasn’t nice of her at all, and good for you for being polite but firm about it. 

@mwitter80: I agree. But I’m a meanie when people are just being rude, I’d probably tell her that the only small people in this situation are the ones talking about others and let her chew on that one for a while. I’m glad the OP is more level-headed than I am 🙂

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I have a GORGEOUS friend who is way taller than her husband. She is also very fashion forward and loves to rock the 6″ heels. She really does tower over her hubby at times, but she owns it and so does he! Next time she makes a comment like that stand up for yourself and for your FH. You two are adorable and who is SHE to laugh about height? I’m never one to bash non-blood relatives to their faces, but you better believe I’d have some choice words about my own brother to his wife should she ever say anything.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I would ignore it.   It doesn’t sound malicious, but it was hurtful.   It doesn’t warrant making a big deal about.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Ohhh SIL”s. I would ignore it. If you makes you feel any better, I wish thats all I had to deal with from my SIL. grrrrrrr 🙂

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